sometimes i have a drink when i am out (a rare treat nowadays!) and then cannot resist a ciggie and then feel like the worst mum in the world all week

[fandango75]

So how rare is rare? Honestly, if you're getting through one cigarette a month, I wouldn't worry.

Chill.

You are out enjoying yourself,it isn't like you are mainlining heroin

Do you want to quit?

If so try nhs helpline.

If it is the odd social puff I wouldn't worry.

What goes on on tour stays on tour as far as motherhood goes- do relax!

oh come on, get over yourself

are you smoking crack ?

no ?

then give yourself a break

we all do it! well all the mums I socialise with anyway, its life!

Actually, I've just read the title "sometimes I have a drink when I'm out"

Crikey, you wild thing you.

I wish I could still have the odd social smoke.

But despite the fact that I used to smoke 10 a day for several years, a couple of drags now gives me head spin and makes me feel sick (just like your first ever ciggie does).

So now I don't even try.

ha funny funny made me feel much better. I gave up a couple of years ago and didnt bother me at all my son is now 7 month old and i have had a few ciggies over the past few months when out. My husband thinks I am a maniac giving myself such a hard time - do need to chill being a knob.

Me too......a few (quite a few) drinks and will have a ciggie if around friends who smoke. There are worse things to worry about x

ps - kitearefun i did the same last week span out like a loon and spent all night throwing up like i was 15

are you force feeding your cild ciggies ??

no ?

then lighten up, love

i know i know i know shame mums give themselves such a hard time over crap rubbish nonsense stuff. Need to get over myself!

*child of course