to have spent half the child maintenance

[smokinaces]

this week on a few toys for myself from lovehoney?

I blame all of you on that other thread - had never seen the site before and the free gifts got me.

And surely I can justify spending a little of the ex's money this week on a few bits for me and the bedroom seeing as he's not here anymore???

Ahhh. Where's Solidgoldbrass with an appropriately insightful (and funny) response when you need her?

Or is lovehoney NOT a porny-presant-for-oneself site? Do they sell twee quilts and fairy lights for ones bedroom instead?

YANBU. So what did you order?

Oooo. Had a peek at Lovehoney. With this in mind I now say - YANBU.

hey first maint. payment I had I went to the underwear store and stocked up on loads of matching sets as XH was really tight with my bra's man it felt good. so I say if you can spare the cash then enjoy it...

but yes what did you get.. come on spill i'm in need of some good advice on that front atm!

ha ha ha - so glad I am NBU!

I order a rabbit which was half price with a freebie, and a naughty book which came with a freebie - and got another small freebie for signing up. Not bad for £30 including batteries

First thing I bought when he left was new bedding - full sets of embroidered stuff with cushions and runners, the proper expensive stuff as he used to hate "poncy" bedding and just wanted cheap rubbish and never made the bed!