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to not understand why anyone would find this funny?

82 replies

KingRolo · 13/08/2009 14:27

Here - baby t-shirt

A colleague emailed this to me. She thought it was funny.

AIBU to think I should say something about the inappropriate sexualisation of babies / children or should I just let it go? Maybe I'm having a sense of humour bypass.

What does anyone else think?

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Paolosgirl · 13/08/2009 19:54

You can just imagine what the parents look like, can't you? No leap of the imagination required there...

T shirt is not even vaguely amusing..

LeonieSoSleepy · 13/08/2009 19:57

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KingRolo · 13/08/2009 20:07

As kids in the 80s we used to say use the words 'spaz' all the time in a very derogatory way. We didn't know it was offensive because nobody told us it was. I am absolutely disgusted now of course that I ever thought that was OK, and that parents or teachers never said anything.

Maybe in the US they'll wise up to the true meaning and the word will become taboo there too?

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KingRolo · 13/08/2009 20:09

Leonie - I didn't know that about the word 'fit'. It certainly seems to be acceptable here as far as I know.

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Woooozle100 · 13/08/2009 20:23

These t shirts are just offal

I'm going to make dh wear a t shirt that says 'Hung like a newborn' instead

And as for 'my name is spaz' - Farkinell I'm with you mamazonthedailymailtakingadump

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MissSunny · 13/08/2009 21:07

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curiositykilled · 13/08/2009 21:08

spaz is much less offensive in the US. Whilst being derived from spastic, for some reason spaz means energetic in the US.

The T-shirts are HORRIBLE though. My friend bought DS a shirt that said 'the incredible sulk' on it. I hate that but that's not a patch on these ones!

curiositykilled · 13/08/2009 21:10

sorry rather majorly x-posted there!

ilovemydogandmrobama · 13/08/2009 21:12

There is no language barrier here.

Hung like a donkey
Spaz
Pimpin

All mean the same.

Rosieeo · 13/08/2009 21:23

I quite liked 'Spit Happens'. Quite apt atm...

KingRolo · 14/08/2009 10:30

The 'Booby Man' one is pretty abhorrent too. No wonder people have issues with women breastfeeding in public.

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MoonIsATiredSlayer · 14/08/2009 10:52

I generally don't mind slogan t-shirts if they're fairly innocent but these are just repulsive.

It DOES matter about the origin of the word and I would find these offensive if I saw them. I don't think Mamaz would actually go up and punch someone, I think she was just expressing how cross it would make her feel - on good grounds I think.

mummygirl · 14/08/2009 11:44

I think that the baby in the OP link is particularly ugly

katiestar · 14/08/2009 11:52

I associated the 'booby man' with man boobs not 'liking womens boobs' they don't need a T shirt to tell us that !!

The word spastic is just an adjective that means means characterised by spasms.
It used to be the word to discribe cerebtal palsy and SCOPE used to call itself the spastic society.So I think its a bit rich for sufferers to suddenly decide the word belongs to them and must never be used by anyone.

ilovesprouts · 14/08/2009 11:56

i dont like it at all !!

Crablass · 14/08/2009 13:28

I saw one a while back which said

"all mummy wanted was a backrub" which made me laugh.

I also quite liked "If I don't match it's because daddy dressed me"

StealthBearWipesBumOnDailyMail · 14/08/2009 13:47

Am I missing the joke in the OP? What's the double meaning because I can only see the penis size interpretation!

BananaPudding · 14/08/2009 14:00

I am American, here's how I feel about these terms:

Hung: means here what it means to you. I find itvery poor taste to apply it to a baby.

Spaz: Comes from spastic and was originally used as a derogatory term for people with spastic conditions. It somehow became mainstream slang to describe a person who is out of control hyper. It is said in the same tone of meaning as "you idiot" or "you dumbass". I have never heard it used as a harmless synonym for energetic. I do find it offensive and generally view the speaker as ignorant and rude. I feel the same way when I hear the word "retard". This subject actually makes my blood boil a bit.

Fit: to our ears, this is a very old fashioned word for seizures, now seen as very rude and harking back to the days of unthinkable asylums and indiscriminate shock treatment.

Pimpin': UGH. Most of America seems to think that the word "pimp" is now an adjective. It's an ugly word, but fairly accepted.

MoonIsATiredSlayer · 14/08/2009 14:21

Katiestar are you on something?

posieparkerinChina · 14/08/2009 14:27

It's not sexualising children, it's just not funny and a little ewwww.

PartOfTheHumphreysGroup · 14/08/2009 14:35

I do like the AB/CD one though :-)

Mumcentreplus · 14/08/2009 14:36

bad taste alert...very yuk

KingRolo · 14/08/2009 15:39

How can a t-shirt with a slogan about being 'well hung' not be sexualising the baby wearing it?

And katiestar - are you being serious there about the use of the word spastic?

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