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AIBU to think Jude Law is a pig?

102 replies

nakaji · 02/08/2009 02:11

He's not a teenager but a father of 3 in his thirties. What the hell is he doing fathering a child with a woman he admits he wasn't serious about - that it was just a fling? Do men just assume that women will take care of the contraception?

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MsPunch · 02/08/2009 19:08

Wife swapping, divorce, shagging the nanny and allowing child to find him bed with nanny, new sibling produced from a two night stand. I think one of these alone would be pretty traumatic for the average 10 year old let alone all of them.

slowreadingprogress · 02/08/2009 19:10

Noooo MsPunch, why on earth should that be traumatic???!!!!

So many adults cite this sort of thing as the catalyst for lifelong problems but unfortunately there are people that just can't see it from the child's viewpoint and expect them to cope with the most bizarre amount of adult-imposed problems

scottishmummy · 02/08/2009 19:12

this has high ouch factor for his children.separation of parents,intrusion of media into your family life,that daddy is a selfish shagger

hard to bear for a robust adult but excruciating for children

becstarlitsea · 02/08/2009 19:15

Jude Law once tutted at me and rolled his eyes in my general direction.

I take this opportunity to tut at him and roll my eyes with a similar degree of smug superiority.

(Anecdote supplied on request).

slowreadingprogress · 02/08/2009 19:16

thank you MsPunch and scottishmummy for making me feel I am not on another planet!

scottishmummy · 02/08/2009 19:19

emergent and developing personalities are potentially shaped by factors such as divorce,acrimonious split,salacious stories about daddy,and a new unplanned sibling.

oh and the whole world and your class mates taking the piss out of your father

beanieb · 02/08/2009 19:20

Sorry - wasn't meaning to offend. To be honest though a divorce doesn't always have to be a massive trauma and hopefully Jude law and Sadie Frost are parenting their children well and trying to limit any damage potential.

I don't think it's particularly fair to assume that the kids will be screwed up by this. Plenty of people / kids whouldn't be, particularly if their feelings are respected and listened to by those who love them.

We have no way of knowing what effect it might have on them or how lasting those effects may be so it seems pretty strange to me to be making such big assumptions about someone we really know nothing about other than what we read in the papers.

expatinscotland · 02/08/2009 20:01

oh, mrspunch, you forgot affair with lapdancer who then had termination whilst Mummy was home ill with PND trying to top herself.

scottishmummy · 02/08/2009 20:06

he is a nasty poon hound but the responsibility for this baby lies with the two consenting adults who were big enough to get it on.but not smart enough to take precautions

contraception is a shared responsibility

expatinscotland · 02/08/2009 20:08

he's balding, short, effeminate and a skank.

eeewwwww.

scottishmummy · 02/08/2009 20:12

aye LOL!i suggest he change CV
description: slap head,bogin,hammy actor
occupation: fannying about getting paid too much
Interests: myself,of course

Nancy66 · 02/08/2009 20:38

The nanny he shagged also said he had a small cock.

scottishmummy · 02/08/2009 20:42

nanny is a dirty stop out too.shag the boss and the children find you in bed.eugh

the nanny traipsed around selling the tawdry story and bleating on about contrition to anyone who would listen pay her.

Nancy66 · 02/08/2009 20:45

That whole set are scuzzy - I don't particularly feel sorry for Sadie Frost, she cheated on her first husband with Jude.

MsPunch · 02/08/2009 20:46

Lets face it, no-one involved in the shennanigans of Jude Law has exactly covered themselves in glory. Like to like and all that.

expatinscotland · 02/08/2009 20:52

And Pearl Lowe and what's-his-face-her-husband just exude skank out of their very pores.

expatinscotland · 02/08/2009 20:53

They're all skeezers, Sadie as well.

poppy34 · 02/08/2009 20:53

Bec story please

msled · 02/08/2009 20:55

anecdote please Bec!

Nancy66 · 02/08/2009 20:55

Noel Gallagher called them 'The Whores on the Hill' (primrose Hill) - things are pretty bad when Noel Gallagher is taking the moral high ground.

msled · 02/08/2009 20:56

Yes, they are all less than...fragrant...

msled · 02/08/2009 20:57

Mind you this sort of thing has always gone on with actors but we just didn't know. David Niven fathered a child out of wedlock and dumped it on his childless and mad wife. I mean, DAVID NIVEN!

scottishmummy · 02/08/2009 20:59

takes a skank to --shag- know a skank,and they are all skanktastic

gavin rossendale and perl lowe of course had a daughter,daisy lowe .and rumours of wife swapping sessions between Pearl Lowe, her Supergrass boyfriend and Sadie Frost and Jude Law

Nancy66 · 02/08/2009 21:00

have always been rumours that Jude is the father of Kate Moss's kid

scottishmummy · 02/08/2009 21:02

really what about the dazed and confused geek?