hi long story but im in the middle of a 2nd contact case regarding my 3 year old son
1st case ended when my ex failed to turn up for court and get in contact for over a year
he was found in a finding of fact to have being violent towards me.
second time round cafcass have ordered drug and drinks tests and a psychologist report. Drug test was for 3 months which he passed the drink test which is the most important to me as he was allways violent when he was drunk came up on the hair strand that he had levels in his system although he has told cafcass he no longer drinks or ever had a drink problem
he also had to have a blood test to go with the hair strand test
which he has done nothing about for 4 months! after hounding from me and his solicitor he imformed his solicitor that he had attended the hospital and that the results would be available in around a week
6 weeks later i have now found out that he didnt attend the hospital and he is blaming the hospital saying that they have made a mistake with the results and lost all record of him!
i feel that this along with all his other lies just during this case is a sign of his non commitment to our son
he has being working and failed to tell the csa he cant turn up for the most simplist of tests! he fails to contact his solicitors for weeks at a time which has resulted in the case being put of now for another 4 months
i am self rep as i dont qualify for legal aid i feel that cafass dont take anything i say on board and make out the violence was becasue he was depressed but again i have never seen proof of this (promised by the cafcass officer in the beginning of the case) im at such a loss as what to do
will anyone see this as lack of commitment to my son?