SIL lived away for all kids lives, not a million miles away but visits rare, was always a bit 'eww they are covered in chocolate' sort of thing with them.
But ever since I had DD she visits gets hold of her, asks about dresses, calls her 'baby xxx' (xxx being her name if you understand)
and always asks on messenger, face book, txt etc .. how is DD?
Never the Dss! and yes, it pee's me off!