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To think that if your 4yo is still up in the evening, you should not really be watching CSI?

58 replies

flamingobingo · 12/07/2009 16:53

I think IA probably NBU wrt CSI, but what about Doctor Who?

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Boys2mam · 12/07/2009 17:04

My DS used to loved Americas Next Top Model

FiveGoMadInDorset · 12/07/2009 17:06

DD loves watching Dr Who

flamingobingo · 12/07/2009 17:07

How old is your DD, fivegomadindorset?

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alittlebitshy · 12/07/2009 17:07

doctor who would be ok i'd say IF the dc in question wsn't one who got scared easily. We let our dd start watching dr who at around age 5, maybe a bit before because she watched the xmas speical, but we sky plussed it normally and watched it in the daytime with her cos frakly we wanted her in bed in the evenings .

FiveGoMadInDorset · 12/07/2009 17:07

3.5, she watches that or a DVD and then goes to bed at 8 (hopefully)

Greensleeves · 12/07/2009 17:08

Dr Who is totally inappropriate for small children

BouncingTurtle · 12/07/2009 17:08

We watched BTVS with 18mo one lunchtime. It was "Beer Bad" from season 4, so no scary bits though!

CSI for a 4yo probably not wise though... can be a bit gory even for my taste!

flamingobingo · 12/07/2009 17:10

What is BTVS?

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TrinityRhino · 12/07/2009 17:11

I dont think csi is for kids at all

doctor who is just complete shite and probably not for under 5's

Jas · 12/07/2009 17:11

Buffy The Vampire Slayer

Knickers0nMaHead · 12/07/2009 17:22

depends how much notice they are taking of the tv.

FiveGoMadInDorset · 12/07/2009 17:23

Mostof it goes over her head, she likes the music.

flamingobingo · 12/07/2009 17:31

Really? Do you really think she's not absorbing any of what she's seeing, even if it's subconsciously?

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Greensleeves · 12/07/2009 17:32

if the most positive thing you can say about her watching it is that at least she doesn't understand it, that's not great, is it

twopeople · 12/07/2009 17:32

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TheChilliMooseHasGreenFingers · 12/07/2009 17:36

If a young child is still up and not sleeping at a reasonable hour, I wouldn't have the TV on at all as it is too stimulating.

Terrahawk · 13/07/2009 07:46

probably not the best viewing material for youngsters, but at least in has some sientific content. Certainly better than having Jeremy Kyle as your daytime background music

monkeyfeathers · 13/07/2009 11:41

I don't really have an issue with Dr Who (it's just escapist nonsense really). Fair enough, some children might be a bit scared by it, but my DS used to love it.

CSI is obviously a completely different issue though. The storylines are often very adult in content (rape, murder, etc, etc). I wouldn't let my 9 year old watch it. He'd probably find it quite boring anyway.

Boys2mam: there's no way I'd get DS to watch ANTM! He's not impressed with it at all. Tbh, neither is the OH - although he does like Project Runway.

Morloth · 13/07/2009 12:32

DS loves Dr Who as well and has watched since he was 3ish.

It is so far from reality that it doesn't bother him. CSI would though I think.

He is going through a dinosaur phase and has watched the Jurassic Park movies, he was totally hunky dory with the dinos running wild on an island eating people - the scene in the second film where the T-rex was in the backyard of the house, freakin' terrified him.

So, escapism/fantasy = FINE anything that looks even slightly possible = FREAKY.

monkeyfeathers · 13/07/2009 12:35

Terrahawk: but Jeremy Kyle does have scientific content... Surely it's full of DNA testing!

TheChilliMooseIsaMalingerer · 13/07/2009 15:10

IMO, Jeremy Kyle should never be on when children are around. It surely isn't healthy for young children to see people shouting at one another and occassionally going for each other.

Unless that is what goes in your home and they are used to it, I guess

monkeyfeathers · 13/07/2009 15:15

Well, I'm not sure Jeremy Kyle should be on in any home. It probably isn't good for anyone to see that kind of thing. But, hey, if people want to watch it...

My OH has been trying to persuade me that, since I'm now on maternity leave, I'm obliged to sit about watching Jeremy Kyle. I think I'd rather chew my arms off.

TheChilliMooseIsaMalingerer · 13/07/2009 15:16

You are a person after my own heart, monkeyfeathers.

nybom · 14/07/2009 09:46

DS (4) stays up every evening until 10pm. he doesn't watch kids' programs but he watches/has watched anything we watch from nip/tuc, star treck, big brother, shameless, embarassing bodies to little britain, south park and skins. if he's afraid he looks away, if there's any explicit sexual activity we make sure to cover his eyes and ears. we try and explain things. and as for the language - when i was young that sort of language wasn't even on TV, and in my native country TV isn't half as explicit as in the UK (only now have htey shown the first vaginal beauty op and are making a big fuss out of it). wait another 5 or 10 years and it will be normal for kids to watch those sort of programs. there's no stopping it anyway.... might as well make no big deal out of it and explain stuff whenever needed.

bratley · 14/07/2009 10:33

My DS is in bed at 7 every night, I wouldnt dream of letting him watch tv on a night. In my opinion he is just too young aswell as the fact that as a young child he needs sleep much more than he needs adult tv.
I want some peace and quiet on a night and to be able to watch what I want without having to 'cover his eyes and ears'.
My Dad moans constantly about how my 3year old brother never sleeps and how he's violent yet thinks nothing of going into the office to check his ebay account while leaving his 3yr old son infront of 'embarrassing bodies' where there is images of a woman having her nipples repositioned.
I told him to come and sit with me and he cuddled on my knee and was asleep in less than 3minutes, because he was exhausted or because he really didnt want to watch that?

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