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AIBU to be pissed off that a friend is spamming my work contacts?

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TheDevilWearsSocksWithSandals · 23/06/2009 13:16

I sent an email to a group and for some reason included her in it.

She's now sending at least 5 emails a day with jokes (some racist) and urban myths to important clients.

I've emailed her about it but she keeps doing it.

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hereidrawtheline · 23/06/2009 13:17

ooooooh that is bad form

you might need to be firm with her about it.

TheDevilWearsSocksWithSandals · 23/06/2009 13:19

I'm guessing she just sends to all her email 'contacts' but it's not cool.

I think I'll ring her, harsh as it is and say STOP

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fucksticks · 23/06/2009 13:21

Thats terrible!
Have you got her phone number? I'd be tempted to call her and say one of your important clients has complained about a racist joke from her and is threatening to not do business with you if it doesnt stop... might make her realise!

hereidrawtheline · 23/06/2009 13:22

yes but that is just not on! I have hundreds of people in my address book if I sent them all the crap I sent out I'd have a lynch mob after me. As it is I am mortified my email account doubled & tripled up on a message that I did write myself but was still not personal if that makes sense. I wont be sending another one of those out again it is just not email etiquette!

skidoodle · 23/06/2009 13:23

No, yanbu. At all.

I can't believe you asked her to stop and she kept doing it.

TreeTrunkThighs · 23/06/2009 13:32

YANBU.

In future, when you email a group, why don't you do it as a blind copy.

I once really peed someone off at work by sending a legit email to a group including someone's (I realised after) private email address. Unbeknown to me she didn't want certain people to have her private email address and I gave it away. I was given great advice to do it as bcc and try and share this advice when I can That way no-one can gleen addresses from your email - including phishers (is that right?) or people like your friend.

OldLadyKnowsNothing · 23/06/2009 13:33

As TreeTrunkThighs has said, you should have bcc'd it. You gave the addresses away, YABU to be upset with her.

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