My friend is getting married in August this year (only a few weeks away). At the start of the year we attended their engagement party, was told to book the day off work, which we did, told that no children were allowed and have organised childcare, got a save the date invite and now.....nothing. I wasn't told about the hen until last minute but couldn't go as was looking after DS and told it was going to be quite 'messy' on the booze front and as am pregnant not really suitable. The bride mentioned how excited she was to me in an email that her wedding is only a few weeks away and when i mentioned we haven't received our invite but kept the save the date and are looking forward to it i have had radio silence.
AIBU to suspect we may have been disinvited? We haven't seen much of them this year as they have been busy wedding planning and we have been busy parenting. We are the first of our friends to have children and they really don't realise how much they change us from our previous social life. I know they want to start trying for kids soon so they will learn pretty sharpish (if all goes well and they get pregnant) but am feeling a little left out.
What do you think ladies and gentlemen? Still invited or on the C-list - 'invited only if everyone else says no'?