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to think some people on netmums should be polite?

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davidbowie · 17/06/2009 12:17

I've only posted once so no doubt I'll be accused of being a troll out to cause trouble. I've been reading a lot of the threads and quite often people are outrageously rude to each other. Now if you don't agree what is wrong with saying in a polite way? Fairly often, very nasty name cally ensues. Do these people talk to each other like this in real life? Sorry but I do find it shocking. It's a shame when a post which could lead to a very good debate ends up with people swearing at each other.

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BecauseImWorthIt · 17/06/2009 12:30

PS, I'm nice too and don't think I've ever told anyone to fuck off.

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RumourOfAHurricane · 17/06/2009 12:31

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davidbowie · 17/06/2009 12:32

Well you all seem to know each other, just I wouldnt speak that way face to face and its seems a bit off putting to newbies, and now Im hoping someone doesnt tell me to f off then

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BecauseImWorthIt · 17/06/2009 12:32

I always thought you were a bitch, shiney. You and your haikus. Pretentious as well.

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mrsruffallo · 17/06/2009 12:33

f off then

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RumourOfAHurricane · 17/06/2009 12:34

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junglist1 · 17/06/2009 12:34

Because the thread was about talking properly and I admitted to dropping h's and t's. Next thing I was being attacked by 5 different people, who in real life wouldn't have said a word. I'm fuming over it again now!!!

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davidbowie · 17/06/2009 12:34

whoisasking I wasn't talking about any particular thread

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cory · 17/06/2009 12:35

Quite agree. It is Netmums' accepted role in life to be soft and fluffy. If they fall down on the job- you go and tell them!

Meanwhile we will stick to our role which is to tell it like it is.

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cory · 17/06/2009 12:35

Quite agree. It is Netmums' accepted role in life to be soft and fluffy. If they fall down on the job- you go and tell them!

Meanwhile we will stick to our role which is to tell it like it is.

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londonone · 17/06/2009 12:36

Thanks junglist, that makes sense I was v confused, had images of someone having some sort of speaking computer!

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whoisasking · 17/06/2009 12:36

HAHA!

I actually do swear too much in real life. It's dreadful actually, and something I keep trying to stop doing, it's actually harder to kick than the old cigs.

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mrsruffallo · 17/06/2009 12:37

Junglist, I've got a Cockney accent too and have had a few ...er...debates on here about it.
Link me to that thread!!

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EccentricaGallumbits · 17/06/2009 12:37

i left netmums for this very reason. bunch of infighting, sniping, rude, vulgar beatches .
feel much more at home here.

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EccentricaGallumbits · 17/06/2009 12:38

was that a bit libelous? am i in trouble?

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VinegarTits · 17/06/2009 12:39

I am nice some of the time

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GypsyMoth · 17/06/2009 12:40

Danielle on netmums is legendary....... You think it's nasty here? She comes on a netmums thread and it gets REALLY nasty!!

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junglist1 · 17/06/2009 12:42

I'm so sorry I can't link I can just about switch it on!! The gist of it was that I sound thick and uneducated and when I said I was doing a degree I was told unis have dumbed down. Then I started picking on people who were blasting me telling them about punctuation etc! And I called someone a name. I was livid!

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junglist1 · 17/06/2009 12:44

Oh and I'll look out for any similar threads in future so we can team up, my fellow cockney sparra!

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whoisasking · 17/06/2009 12:45

I have a REALLY "common" Sarf East London accent. Why should I change the way I speak? It's a regional accent.

Grrrr, you're making me cross now junglist

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mistlethrush · 17/06/2009 12:45

Shiney - who said I needed permission to leave!!! Anyway, I haven't left, I'm just visiting some other locations too...

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mrsruffallo · 17/06/2009 12:48

You are quite right, whoisasking it is a regional accent but one that seems fair game to take the pee out of.

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junglist1 · 17/06/2009 12:50

How dare you be from Sarf? I'm from Norf Tottenham sides luv so don't test me or I'll rip you to shreds on here and I will WILL smile sweetly if I ever meet you for real OK!!??

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junglist1 · 17/06/2009 12:51
Grin
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grumblinalong · 17/06/2009 12:51

I'm well nice, innit.

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