oh no! Just asked neighbours to move away from baby's room....

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as they are smoking again and this time its not tabacco!

I have tried loudly shuting windows etc, coughing, saying to baby "we will have to go in now etc"

The mother is a nurse and their father was a doctor for gods sake!!!

The son was shocked looking but I was light hearted and appolgised etc seemed ok.....

Ah! AIBU??

We are been doing loads of building work so my timing was CRAP!!

Surely the smoke will be too far away to get into your baby's lungs?? Unless they're practically standing outside your baby's room directly smoking through the window I'm not sure it's a problem?

You may think so but its strong smelling in the bedroom. Having a word wasn't easy!

YANBU if they are smoking illegal substances outside your baby's window. Building work is not illegal.

Good for you to be brave enough. Glad he apologised. I wonder if his parents know. If not, its one to keep on the for the future!

Don't think it's unreasonable to politely ask them to move away a little.

no not at all i would have done the same

How old is he ?If he's still a minor I think you should tell his parents

Well it's a bit different if they are smoking something illegal. Then again if baby settles quietly as a result you may want to buy some from them and take it up yourself

GrandadOnagar!!!!!!!!!!!

DH has just informed me that the mum (also a smoker) is often sipping tea whilst her sons smoke weed! She is a nurse and their dad was a doctor!

Hi katiestar he is all grown up i'm afraid.

All the Drs and nurses that I know smoke weed.

When I say all those I know, i don't mean my own gp as I don't know him that well despite seeing him in a professional capacity far too many times! I mean those of my friends and acquaintances who are in the medical field

Maybe I'm missing something Pavlovtheforgetfulcat!

I am so dreading dumping into them now I have said something!

I would not be embarrassed, they should be embarrassed that their son was so brazen about smoking it that you could smell it in your LOs bedroom.

I don't smoke it myself, but those that i know who do, are very discreet about it. And so you bloody well should be!