Well now.
I have done every diet under the sun....Weight Watchers, Slimming World, Atkins, F-Plan, cabbage Soup, all of them...calorie counting etc.
I was, at my heaviest, around 26 stones. Every diet I tried I lost weight on, and EVERY time I put it back and more...NONE of them ever sorted my head out.
I heard of LL around 3 years ago, and like the OP was very sceptical. 18 months ago I reached the point where it was lose the weight myself or have a gastric bypass. I decided to have one last shot and went to LL.
18 months on and I have lost around 11 stones. I see the GP/Nurse every month for a BP check, my GP too was sceptical at the start but signed me up because he knew a gastric bypass was dangerous for me (I have Malignant Hyperpyrexia).
LL has been the only thing that made me work out WHY I was eating. WHY I could not stop...why I was binging/eating everything I could. Why I self-sabotaged every effort I made to lose weight.
LL does NOT throw you back out into the big bad world of food...it reintroduces food SLOWLY and teaches you HOW to enjoy it PROPERLY.
I am not ashamed of the fact I was so big...I am sad that I didn't get the help I needed earlier.
LL counsellors are highly trained and accredited, they are not witch-doctors or quacks. I had had counselling before, and seen a psychologist, both through the NHS, also a dietician. They could not help me break the cycle.
I now have a meal a day and 3 packs, and will slowly over the summer re-introduce other food. I am not frightened of eating again...I KNOW I will never put the weight back on.
When you are obese, your brain does not function in the same way as a "normal" person. You do not eat slowly, savour every mouthful, stop eating when you are full. You do not think "oh I've had three meals today, I don't need anything else".
My brain used to be consumed by food thoughts from the second I woke until I fell asleep, when we went out my first thought was "where can we go for coffee/lunch/afternoon tea". My life revolved around what I could manage to eat, often eating in secret. Forgetting 80% of what I'd eaten that day because the volume was too great to contemplate.
It is very, VERY easy for you people to sit in judgement of someone who is truly overweight, but believe me, until you have walked a mile in our shoes you have absolutely NO RIGHT to comment.
The people who regain the weigh after LL have NOT done RTM. They have NOT retrained their brains/dealt with their triggors to find out WHY they are eating. The % of people who regain their weight AFTER RTM and Full Management is very, very low.
OP, you have no right to slam something you have not tried and know nothing about. When your friend succeeds, and keeps her weight off after RTM, and you are still "restarting the gym/diet", maybe then you'll have a rethink.
I'm bloody proud of myself, unfortunately opinions like yours are something I have to battle against every day. You ARE uneducated about LL, and very closed-minded.