in expecting my dh to tidy up...

[pink1970girl]

without asking me where everything goes?
the worktops in the kitchen were covered i "stuff" and the toys were all over the floor in the lounge...he just stood there and said..."what do you want me to do?"..when i said,"just put the things that aren't where they belong away" he looked at me like i am an alien!!is it me????
Also are computer junk bits magnetic?, every time i wasn't looking he was distracted by some computer stuff!!

But does he know where everything goes or do you usually do the tidying up?

Men just need to be trained. They need cleaar instructions.

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Oh they see it all right - they just don't want to do it. It's like training a dog without a biscuit in your pocket.

Does your DP think pans needs to 'soak' for 3 days? And perhaps that washing should stay out for a fortnight (particularly if it has rained in the meantime)?

Just like mine then.

YANBU!