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Am I being unreasonable to suggest that kids who are faddy eaters have been "allowed" to become so?

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Lucia39 · 27/05/2009 20:17

This will no doubt get me "flamed" but hell, I don't want to watch the Champions League final so have left other half and teenage son to do so on their own - a good opportunity for some "male bonding" with some beer!

So, what do other parents think? Are faddy eaters born or made?

I recognise that we all have certain foods that we don't particularly care for or like but once those dislikes have been identified surely everything else should be accepted and eaten? I always advocated the "taste it and see" approach which generally worked. Although I wouldn't suggest that a two year old be given red hot Indian food just to "taste and see", but .... you never know!

I also often wonder if some children are faddy because their repertoire has been so limited and/or bland that they view anything that looks or tastes "different" with suspicion.

When I was growing up there was always an option at meal-times "take it or leave it" and my mother held to the view that when we were hungry enough we'd eat. I am also quite sure that a day without solid food will not actually harm any child!

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Dalrymps · 29/05/2009 13:20
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TsarChasm · 29/05/2009 13:21

Why do you keep bumping this so much?

barnsleybelle · 29/05/2009 13:21

it's called attention seeking behaviour.

TsarChasm · 29/05/2009 13:23

Ah, okaaay...

MachuPicchu · 29/05/2009 13:27

Are you trying to be the 1000th Dalrymps? ;)

Dalrymps · 29/05/2009 13:27

No you misunderstand. I'm not bunmping, i'm trying to fill the thread. Lucia has wound a lot of people up who's children have serious eating problems and I don't think she desrves the space to do it anymore. Thats all

barnsleybelle · 29/05/2009 13:28

and there you have it, someone's noticed her, she'll be happy now.

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barnsleybelle · 29/05/2009 13:33

If something is so upsetting then just don't read it, that's what i do. A one woman crusade to fill up a thread is a bit extreme i think, and maybe even a little childish.

Dalrymps · 29/05/2009 13:35

I do understand what your saying, I haven't done this before. Everytime I come back to the thread she is upsetting someone else so for once this is what I have decided to do. I don't mean to annoy anyone.

barnsleybelle · 29/05/2009 13:37

Fair enough dalrymps... go for it.

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