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[tryingtobemarypoppins]

Ok trying for baby number 2 but am sooooooooooo knackard just want to go to bed to SLEEP!!!
AIBU to ask DH to take a few "short cuts"

to getting pregnant........

probably really should have changed my talk name

surely sex is the quickest way of getting pregnant?
What short cuts are you thinking of that are quicker??!!?

you mean not bothering making it pleasurable for you? just a quick in and out job?
yanbu

if you're too tired now,then how will you cope with being pregnant and then a new baby?

him 'finishing' in a cup and putting it in you??

hmm tis easy for you but would have thought not as reliable for conceiving
and wouldn't you rather your dc was conceived through a loving act

I'm guessing you mean cutting down on the foreplay and getting down to business more quickly?

As long as you're both aroused enough then I don't see why not but I can see that your DH might feel a bit used!

i second tiffany
why are you so tired you dont want to have sex?

will you cope with pg and new baby

what other dc do you have?

Not UN at all.

He'd probably be grateful.

Nothing wrong with with a few good quick shags if that's what you mean.

But if you're this tired already why ar you TTC number 2?

oh sorry you have one dc already

well you cant be that tired then

making babies (ie, the sex) is the fun bit! I loved trying for DS2
what short cuts do you mean exactly?

Quickies? Perfectly reasonable. If you are properly 'ttc' and plan to do it all the time, then you can't be having epic sessions every night. Well, you could do if you wanted to......but perfectly reasonable not to, iyswim

Quickies fine for ttc sex especially if you've been ttc for a while.

When you've been ttc for nearly 2 years as we were - the magic of ttc sex fades.

When trying to conceives for the 2nd time, we were at it lots during the window of opp, once I tild DS I would wait for him upstairs, 20 mins later no sign, so I popped doewnstairs and he was snoring flat out on the sofa,gob open, not v attractive, as it was our last day, I did toy with the idea of doing it myself! But no I did not.

carocaro, I beg you to change that DS in your last post to DH/P.

business as oppose to pleasure you mean

A quickie is fine, even if you're not TTC, it might just be what you feel like that day, it's a perfectly acceptable type of sex to be having.

In a cup is not such a good idea - if you want a baby you want the stuff to get properly squirted in the right direction, IYSWIM.

if yabu, then so am I!
Same situation, quick snatched time when DS is asleep - DH gets too tired at night so we have to do it in the daytime and it's impossible to relax and get into it, so yes, we generally just go for the quickest method possible.

We're all entitled to a bit of "Pull my nightie down when you're finished" baby-making

Swift bunk up totally in order.

YANBU