Oh please stop me from taking a hit out on my bil

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Not really. But only because I don't have the money

I don't think I've ever despised someone as much in my life

I just feel like I'm banging my head against a brick wall. My sister is living a Jeremey Kyle life, and she deserves so much more.

Is it worth me talking to him? Will it make him worse? Would it piss my sis off? Would I lose all control and stab him in the eye with a pencil?

Fucksake.

He doesn't hit her or anything. He's just so incredibly emotionally manipulative, and such an arsehole.

I CANNOT BEAR THE MAN!

And..... breathe......

Hey lovely. I would say no, don't talk to him, you are too involved and too angry to do anything except make the situation worse.
Is there anyone else who could talk to him instead?

Isn't it odd what some women will put up with - YANBU.

Could you do the "hit" yourself and save £50k.

Katy, bless you x

Yes, they have children. She has a 15 yr old ds from her first marriage, and they have a 2 year old and a 2 month old ds together.

She's gone from being this sparky, witty, together woman to some emotionally battered shell.

I can't tell you how much I fucking hate him.