I recently borrowed some money towards my house deposit from my dad. I have promised that I will have this back to him by December, he agreed, all good.
He also insisted on paying for my wedding. I said I was going to pay but I couldn't afford everyone, so only DP, me and DS would be going- and we'd be getting married abroad. He threw a paddy and wouldn't speak to me for 3 months as he wanted to pay and for the whole family to come- so he is paying and they are coming.
However, today I was on the phone, moaning to my mum about the weather on bank holiday, looking out at the rain and said 'I wanted to go to the park but it's blardy awful. You can buy me a jacket if you like mum' then laughed. She said 'You're joking arn't you, I can't afford owt at the moment. Actually, I've got your jacket here, your dad's coming over in a bit I'll get him to take you it.'
So when dad gets here, he keeps pretending to fall asleep when I'm talking because he insists all day every day that he is the most tired person on earth because he thinks he works harder than anyone, and goes on and on about it none stop, particularly if he does anything for anyone.
Anyway, I thought that was rude enough.
Then he says his accountant has said he's worse off than last year when he's worked even harder. I said 'Oh how come?' and he said 'well I'm paying for the wedding and you and your sister want money off us all the time and we never do anything for our selves.' etc etc. Then he said 'I need to talk to you and [dp] about money'. I said 'Oh, well hopefully I can pay you back next month'. I always get treated like a spoilt child.
So I rang my mum and said how come he's going on about money again? She said 'because you asked for a jacket'. I said 'I was joking!'
Apparently when she hung up he asked what I'd said and she told him and he was whinging.
Is it not all a bit silly? He shouldn't lend money if he's going to get all funny about it. I've been very greatful. I bought him wine and a thankyou card and promised that he'll have the money back by when he wants it back.
AIBU to feel a bit upset about it?