to think you DON'T lift a tray of ot drinks over a couple of childrens heads

[misdee]

we were at willows farm today and it was jammed packed. we were trying to leave the 'wooly jumpers' playbarn. dd1 and dneice1 were pushing dnephews2 buggy at the fron,t and i was following with dd2, dd3 and dneice2, and dd4 in a sling. as i said itr was jammed so dd1 at the front was waiting for someone ahead to move out of the way.
a lady came along with a tray of hot drinks wanting to go the same way s dd1 and co. she went to lift the whole tray over all the kids heads and squeeze past. i said 'NO NO NO' as panicked. dneice1 has cerebal palsy and topples a lot, all it would take was one topple and we would have scaled kids on ou hands.

was IBU?

Nope, you definately (sp?) were not being unreasonable.

Aaagh, YANBU at all - have seen this in Costa recently, fairly unstable old lady tried to lift tray over some little ones sat at a table, and I swear you could see the drinks sliding around - I had to leap for it and grab the tray to "help" her .... mind you Willows during the Easter hols? On a wet day? Madness I tell you!!!!

Yanbu.

YANBU and I feel annoyed and angry for you!!

I miss this as was behind Misdee with Ds1 in his wheelchair, but what a stupid moo eh??

oooh it was horrific the other day too ...

YANBU - how silly; why couldn't she wait a moment?!

Oh god no, yanbu.

YANBU... this winds me up so much - sady it isn't uncommon behaviour. People can be so stupid.