to be 100% happy that i'm a single woman?

[LolaTheShowgirl]

Friends think i'm lying, but I can't think of anything worse than a man spoiling and limiting my fun social life!

does the lady protesteth too much???

Perhaps you havent met the right person?
I was rather dismayed recently to realise how much I like being single as well, though.

I always been a 100% happy single gal. ohhh all that time for youself, the books one could read, the social life...

I truly believe you and you even though I have soulmate dh (except when we argue ). I swore that if we break up I'll be a spinster for life.

Now I haven't got even the time to write properly, sorry!

If that is how you see a relationship with a man, then of course you are not unreasonable.

Its a bit odd and sad however that you do seem to see it in that way. Why should being in a relationship limit you? If it does, surely its not much of a relationship?

unless you mean something quite specific by 'fun social life' which is normally incompatible with a relationship