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To Have a Secret Crush on UnQuietDad?

547 replies

secretcrush · 26/03/2009 17:43

Cant help it
The thought that there are intelligent, funny, non-sleazy men out there who have masses in common with me....

It just gives me hope

And he's a regular poster on MN too.

OP posts:
Threadworm · 27/03/2009 10:01

But isn't it just FANTASTIC to have a place on the internet that is almost exclusively female, where women's humour and attitudes set the tone. Of course it doesn't really matter that there are a few men floating about, but if they became numerous it would change the place and it would lose a huge amount of its appeal for me.

Rhubarb · 27/03/2009 10:02

I think it's a shame that men are singled out on Mumsnet.

hullygully · 27/03/2009 10:02

We could bombard them with love, feminise them and get them to smell the flowers.

bellavita · 27/03/2009 10:07

If DH posted on here, I wouldn't mind. In fact he has posted (on my request) to threads.

I kinda like BigGitDad. I have a picture in my mind of a big bear with lots of patience.

NorkyButNice · 27/03/2009 10:08

RetiredGoth often makes me LOL too (in an entirely non crush stylee though!).

Nothing wrong with men posting here at all IMO.

cory · 27/03/2009 10:11
hullygully · 27/03/2009 10:12

All together: In perfect harmoneeee with apple trees and honey bees and snow white turtle doves...there, isn't that better?

secretcrush · 27/03/2009 10:21

Ah that's more like it. Had no idea this thread would turn out the way it did...interesting.

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KayHarkerIsPlayingWithMitchell · 27/03/2009 10:24

Well, yes, women set the tone, and that's fabulous. But that doesn't mean that men posting here is odd.

Besides, none of us actually know what gender the majority of MNers are anyway. Unless we're going to set up a new checking system like that chair a new Pope has to sit in to prove he's got boy-bits.

KayHarkerIsPlayingWithMitchell · 27/03/2009 10:26

Poor secretcrush

Sorry; how about, phwoar! That UQD is a fox, YANBU

ruty · 27/03/2009 10:32

i bet DominiConnor had his followers too.

IorekByrnison · 27/03/2009 10:36

I don't particularly mind the men on here. But it is interesting how distinct their voices are against the predominantly female culture of mumsnet. They tend to be very good at putting their own opinions across, but not so good at recognising that their opinions are not necessarily facts. And are often unusually hopeless when it comes to entering a genuine discussion where people are hoping to learn from each other. The men I know in real life don't tend to be like this, so I'm not sure why this should be.

ruty · 27/03/2009 10:37

absolutely IB. I have noticed it too.

Lawks · 27/03/2009 10:42

What chair the new pope has to sit on to prove he's got boy bits?

[intrigued]

Pruners · 27/03/2009 10:44

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Pruners · 27/03/2009 10:47

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VinegarTitsTheVirginNun · 27/03/2009 10:47

How do you know we are not ALL men? or that the men who profess to be men are not men?

SexyDomesticatedDad · 27/03/2009 10:49

JOHN VIII.

John, of English extraction, was born at Mentz [=Mainz] and is said to have arrived at Popedom by evil arts; for disguising herself like a man, whereas she was a woman, she went when young with her paramour, a learned man, to Athens, and made such progress in learning under the professors there that, coming to Rome, she met with few that could equal, much less go beyond her, even in the knowledge of the Scriptures; and by her learned and ingenious readings and disputations, she acquired so great respect and authority that upon the death of Leo (as Martin says), by common consent she was chosen Pope in his room. As she was going to the Lateran Church, between the Colossean Theatre (so called from Nero's Colossus) and St. Clement's, her travail came upon her, and she died upon the place, having sat two years, one month, and four days, and was buried there without any pomp. They write that, because of this, the Pope avoids going through this street to the Lateran Church, and that, to avoid the same error, when he is first placed on the seat of Peter, that has a hole for this purpose, his genitals are felt by the youngest deacon. The first, I can't rule out, on the latter I think it might be prepared for the great magistracy, to make him understand he is a man, not God; and exposed to the necessities of nature, and that he has the possibility of discharge, for this reason the seat is called Stercoria. This story is vulgarly told, but by very uncertain and obscure authors, and therefore I have related it barely and in short, lest I should seem obstinate and pertinacious if I had admitted what is so generally talked; I had better mistake with the rest of the world; though it be certain, that what I have related may be thought not altogether incredible. Some say that at this time the body of St Vincent was brought by a monk from Valentia, in Spain, to a village in Albigeois, in France. They say, too, that Lotharius, being now aged, taking on him a monastic habit, left the empire to his son Louis, who passing into Germany, by his precense composed matters there which otherwise threatened a war.

KayHarkerIsPlayingWithMitchell · 27/03/2009 10:50

Pruners, I rather think that's quite an interesting phenomena, though. Given that it happens on majority male sites to women to a certain extent, too.

Lawks, it might be a myth, but I vaguely recall a prospoective pope has to sit on a chair, or did at one point, to prove he's actually a man, just in case a woman should dare to pretend to be Christ's representative on earth. I wonder if people thought a willy was like a conducting rod for deity or something.

daftpunk · 27/03/2009 10:50

i would love a website i could go on that was all women...not sure how that could ever be achieved?...as like you say VT...you just don't know who anyone is really..

KayHarkerIsPlayingWithMitchell · 27/03/2009 10:50

Golly, I'm being very irreverent this morning, must be time for coffee, apologies to any offended Catholics.

mrsmortenharket · 27/03/2009 10:52

lol
am also intrigued about the 'chair'

daftpunk · 27/03/2009 10:53

i had thought (in my naivety) that this site was all women...oh well..

KayHarkerIsPlayingWithMitchell · 27/03/2009 10:54

Actually, I do know men who truly believe a willy is a conducting rod for deity, to be fair.

KayHarkerIsPlayingWithMitchell · 27/03/2009 10:55

well, all signs point to it being mostly women, daftpunk.