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To wonder why I seem to appeal to men in their 50s?

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SkintColditz · 22/03/2009 09:50

NOw, to be clear, I am NEVER rude to anyone who contacts me.

But I've just had a message on a dating site from an overweight 58 year old with no photo who wants to take me off in his caravan for 'fun', and wants me to cll his mobile "ofter 6" to "Sort something out"DO I look like a prostitute with a penchant for grandfathers? He's 30 years older than me!

Everyone deserves love. I know this. But he seems to be looking for a random hook up (and my profile states I'm looking for DATING anyone between 25 and 40!) so why did he think I'd be receptive to this?

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BonsoirAnna · 22/03/2009 09:52

He's just a hopeless case who'll try it on with anyone on the offchance he gets lucky. Ignore him!

SkintColditz · 22/03/2009 09:55

I don't like ignoring people though - I need to think of a polite response that is nevertheless fair clear on the subject of Not On Your Nelly

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BonsoirAnna · 22/03/2009 10:10

Colditz - you do not need to be polite here!

Learn to defend your own interests and do not waste energy on people who only have their own interests at heart.

friday32 · 22/03/2009 12:53

ignore him if you are polite he will take it as encouragement just answer people who you are interested in.

Sorrento · 22/03/2009 13:07

If you igore him he might think you're playing hard to get lol

SkintColditz · 22/03/2009 13:13

ew

ew
ew

No

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BCNS · 22/03/2009 13:28

ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
just tell him you don't want to Sh*g your dad .. usually puts them off

SkintColditz · 22/03/2009 18:02

I didn't reply

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