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Not to want to be yelled at by ignorant pig when i am out with my DD and DP and Ddog!

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LucyEllensmummy · 08/03/2009 13:51

We have just had a lovely walk along our beach - just the right weather, DD and DP on scooter and me there behind them (quite a long way).

Dog off the lead (small jr type) not bothering anyone with children (he used to do this and was kept on lead but doesn't bother now). Lots of other dogs off lead - loads, hundreds possibly, all happily meeting greeting and generally having fun. Its lovely to watch - my dog is a friendly little character.

So, my dog approaches some dogs on the lead - one of the dogs starts snarling (NOT mine!!) as is quite common with dogs on leads - my dog is a bit dim and thinks it a game so is bouncing around. The owner then starts bellowing at me to put my dog on the lead (by this time my dog had walked off anyway) that i was breaking the law by having him off lead on the beach. Which i know is not true as dogs are banned from that beach between may and september only. Its perfectly legal any other time. My dog wasn't bothering anyone else. Comes when called etc. So the guy gives it all "well we'll see about that" Gets his phone and calls who? The council, the police??? I just go and sit on the wall and say, call who you want, we'll wait!! WANKER!!!!!!! Its not my fault his dog is aggresive to other dogs and his wife goes into a panic. I think he might have an interesting walk today - thousands of dogs on the beach off the lead, with people with and without dogs/children enjoying watching them play.

I would have had my dog on the lead if he were a)bigger (i used to have rotties and only ever walked them off lead in the depths of winter as they are a bit intimidating. b) aggresive c)likely to approach children (i don't like this myself) or liable to be a pain and not come away from other dogs - he is none of these.

What a thoroughly unpleasant man!

Waits to be flammed, just ranting really - i know I ANBU

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StripeyKnickersSpottySocks · 08/03/2009 17:56

I love these AIBU posts where nearly everyone says YABU and the OP continues to argue the toss and say they're in the right, etc even when everyone else disagrees.

Surely it doesn't matetr if the owners' make it worse by tightening the lead and being terrified. The fact that some people, never mind their dogs are terrified makes it more important to not let your dog run up to other dogs.

How could this bloke say something to you when you've alread said that your dog was infront of you?

mistlethrush · 08/03/2009 17:57

How about this for taking the biscuit then. Several years ago I was out with my dog (off the lead, within 20m of me, pottering about as normal) and ds who was walking around - I had the buggy with me as he couldn't keep it up too long. We were in a big recreation field. I saw another dog owner and her dog coming in the opposite direction. She veered off, we kept going in the direction we had been - her dog (small terrier type) kept on going in the direction she had been going - ie towards us. She called over to me to keep my child with me as her dog wasn't to be trusted. My dog (and my child) were equally distant from me as her dog was - but I recalled both and they both immediately responded! Unfortunately I was too to get in any retort...

QuantitativeMeasure · 08/03/2009 18:00

I really hate dogs not being on leads.

dittany · 08/03/2009 18:04

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StripeyKnickersSpottySocks · 08/03/2009 18:15

Gives dog owners a bad name.

MadameCastafiore · 08/03/2009 18:22

I would have just given your dog a swift tap with my boot!

Am sure it is why those horrid yappy dogs are that size - so you can just get your toe underneath and launch them off into the stratosphere!

And as for the man shouting - your DD would have felt even more terrified when his dog took a chunk out of yours.

dittany · 08/03/2009 18:28

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noonki · 08/03/2009 18:43

LEM - my once very sociable dog is now often starting fights (a result of being badly bitten and shaken by a alsatian when younger).

I get fed up with people who let their dogs come up to mine. She is obviously on a lead for a reason. (I do let her off when their are no other dogs around or when the only dogs aren't bigger than her ..she only starts on bigger dogs ),

But I have shouted at people to call off their dogs, but would NEVER tell them to put their dog on a lead. As the issue is with my dog.

so yabu - to let your dog going up to dogs on leads

be he is being far more unreasonable shouting at you.

catinthehat1 · 08/03/2009 18:48

Having read this thread, the light has dawned.

LucyEllensMummy is not the same person as MummyLovesLucie.

LucyEllensmummy · 08/03/2009 18:53

don't you be starting on me catinthehat - i'll get my dog to eat you!!! Well i would, but he's scared of cats! I know mummyloveslucie, we are very alike don'tcha know

Dittany and KM - would ya feck off!!

Can i hold my hands up in defeat then??

I might have been a tinsy bit unreasonable, maybe, just a little - but if anyone calls my dog a yappy little runt type thing anymore i swear i'm going to go out in the street and get my tits out!

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LucyEllensmummy · 08/03/2009 18:54

dittany, please dont think i would let my dog run up to people, i don't if he did, id keep him on a lead. I kept my rotties on a lead most of the time cos they were huge but you would be surprised how many kiddies i would get comeing to pet them.

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LucyEllensmummy · 08/03/2009 18:55

seriously, i do take on board the peoples comments about nervous dogs and i will bear this in mind in future - i still think the guy was a twunt though.

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MitchyInge · 08/03/2009 19:13

that you have taken that on board

SlartyBartFast · 08/03/2009 19:19

well, i wanted to give my opinion, but this thread is too long

so ner.

sarah293 · 08/03/2009 19:30

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raindroprhyme · 08/03/2009 22:20

just off to bed so haven't read whole thread, but...

It drives me mad when dogs off lead approach me and my dog when out walking and the owner
just shouts over 'he's fine he won't bother'.

My dog is on a lead because he does bother and i am sure other owner would not be so jolly if my dog ate their dog.

YANBU in not wanting to be shouted at quite rudely but also need to take into consideration why this person had their dogs on a lead. Maybe be more proqactive in calling your dog away from dogs on lead.

Doodle2U · 08/03/2009 22:27

If your dog is on a lead because he/she is unsociable around other dogs or people - why do those of us with perfectly sociable dogs have to have our dogs on a lead as well?

If yours is on a lead because you've kindly re-homed it and it came with problems - tough! You took it on, you deal with it but you took it on knowing full well that the world is full of dogs off-lead!

KerryMumbles · 08/03/2009 22:31

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raindroprhyme · 08/03/2009 22:33

doodle exactly,
so control your off lead dog and discourage it from approaching on lead dogs unless invited.

KerryMumbles · 08/03/2009 22:35

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2shoes · 08/03/2009 22:37

go on everyone....let the dogs all run wild

Doodle2U · 08/03/2009 22:39

No, you've misunderstood me Kerry....actually, you probably haven't, I'm in one of my "I can't communicate clearly" phases....

I mean in places where you can walk a dog off lead, not just randomly and inappropriately.

If you've got total re-call and you see a dog on a lead, you call your dog away as the other dog must be on a lead for a reason.

Oh, ignore me - I know what I mean!

I scoop poop - I'm a good dog-owner tha' knows!

KerryMumbles · 08/03/2009 22:40

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