To ignore the phone whenever my mums number flashes up today ?

[ComeWhineWithMe]

Because I can not deal with her rudeness and wants today .

nah. bugger her.

What's she done?

No. YANBU

Having a rude and demanding parent myself I can totally relate to the need to be 'out' occasionally.

Are you OK though? You sound like you may be having a bad day.

She is just her usual rude self . Hasn't done anything today she is just demanding .

It will be either

"How do you spell ?"

"Have you wrote me that letter?"

"Why is my computer broke?"

Or some other random rant all without saying hello first or asking after me and her gc at all.

Not having a bad day Niecie .Just don't want to speak to her much .

I am ok thanks for asking .

YANBU but just make sure that someone else is in touch with her in case something has happened (important)

Oh my brother is at home with her .
She is not elderly she is only 49 .

Then go for it - have a nice relaxing free day

oh i have days like this - she can ring at ridiculous o clock, night or day to ask something completely random, you say to her, but mum its midnight i can't do anything now and she gets all

ah, my mum is 73 though

I miss caller ID

I have guilt now .

Don't have guilt - have fun!!!

Or at least relax.

to hear, that must be a trial. YANBU, other than to feel guilty about it! Could you go out somewhere for a nice tea and cake? You sound like a saint given this is something you have to ask us about!

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