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AIBU?

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Original poster

to want to sit down for an hour and have DH look after dd2 without whining?

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SheSellsSeashellsByTheSeashore · 15/02/2009 17:15

Considering that I only had about four hours sleep and have just finished work, where we were short staffed and rushed off our feet?

Because Dh wants me to make sure dd2 doesn't get into the mess he has just left while he swanned off to mils to have his dinner cooked for him and he wants me to help clean up.

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ssd · 15/02/2009 17:18

why did he go alone and not take you all for dinner? git

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SheSellsSeashellsByTheSeashore · 15/02/2009 17:21

I was at work. What I mean is that while I was at work he was at mils with dd2 instead of cleaning up, so now he wants me to do it with him and I just want to sit for a while.

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ssd · 15/02/2009 17:22

you have a seat, you're tired

leave the mess!

AnyFuckerForAShiteSoppyCard · 15/02/2009 17:23

you have been working while he has been waited on by his mother ??

sit down and direct operations shesells, you are deserving of a rest, not him

ssd · 15/02/2009 17:25

"direct operations", love it!

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SheSellsSeashellsByTheSeashore · 15/02/2009 17:26

Well apparently I have 'only' been at work five hours and therefore do not deserve a rest.

So for five hours I have been running around like a headless chicken and now I should clean up. He is now whinging that dd2 is not behaving. She is bored. Why can he not play with her? Take her for a walk? Anything, but give me some peace.

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ssd · 15/02/2009 18:06

he needs a good kick up the arse

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SheSellsSeashellsByTheSeashore · 15/02/2009 18:32

I wholly agree there ssd. I have given up now. Clearly I am not going to get any peace untill dd2 is in bed. She was getting stressed because there was not enough space for her to get her toys out.

I am having five mins atm before I go back to cleaning up. DH has picked up a shoe .

He has been very busy apparently today. It must be so knackering frying 3 rashers of bacon and then being waited on hand and foot for three and half hours.

I going to cause this man some serious physical damage one day. Hopefully the magistrate will be a woman. I would get away with it if it was a woman.

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AnyFucker · 15/02/2009 19:04

shesells, so you are doing the tidying up after all

wny?

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SheSellsSeashellsByTheSeashore · 15/02/2009 19:54

because I couldn't stand dd2 crying anymore. She wanted to play but he was just telling her to shut up

I am just waiting for him to find somewhere else to live now. This trying again is not working because he is not trying.

He has just had some bad news about nephew which seems to have given him liscence to behave absolutely fouly to both me and dd2. I have had enough.

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AnyFucker · 15/02/2009 21:07

he sounds horrid shesells

sorry, I don't know your story but I hope you work it out

notnowbernard · 15/02/2009 21:12

Sounds dire

I don't know your story either... but you are his lover, not his Mother

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