To want to be ASKED before making a contribution to charity?

[dilemma456]

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you should have turned round and said that to her!

That's outrageous. The cheeky cow! Which store is this?

No way is that right. If you hadn't noticed it would technically be theft/fraud whatever. It doesn't matter how much it is.

i'm a fundraiser and that's illegal. what shop?

Y
ANBU - tell us which shop it was so we can beware

Which shop?

Bang out of order.

They do that at GAP over here (Canada) but at least they have the courtesy of asking first.

as Fishie says that is illegal

you have to be able to "opt out"

complain - something like this can affect the PR for both the store and the charity

I've been asked before but never had it done without me knowing, i'd have been extremly annoyed and if i had heard her say something like that would have had to have gone back for words. YANBU

YA-definitely-NBU