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To go out for a night out and act like a horny teenager?

9 replies

newlysinglemummy · 23/01/2009 21:03

Flirtling with a few guys and dancing real close with them. Even kissing one guy that I work with? Even tho I am not interested atall.

I have not done anything like that in years, but feel that now I am single I should have abit of fun as I never get out or go anywhere. Its nice to just do what ever you want to do...

Even If I will be so embarressed at work, and I'm hoping no one knows...

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Lovesdogsandcats · 23/01/2009 21:14

Sounds like you have been starved of attention for a long time, and making up for it.
I think you should enjoy yourself and the attention, no harm in that, but steer clear of people you work with as no good will come of that.

newlysinglemummy · 23/01/2009 21:17

oh yes I know its not a good idea to go near people I work with but was drunk and lapping up the attention

I think the problem is that I need a man to sleep with so would not have all that sexual tension. But do not feel ready for a bf...

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sorrento · 23/01/2009 21:19

Hell I'm married and I do that every year on my Birthday, it's fab and DH gets the benefit when I get home.

newlysinglemummy · 23/01/2009 21:22

sorrento - oh gosh is that your yearly treat?

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littlelamb · 23/01/2009 21:24

God no, YANBU. Speaking as someone who is going out and doing the very same next week

girlandboy · 23/01/2009 21:26

Just

newlysinglemummy · 23/01/2009 22:07

lol gla you do not all think I am disgusting...

I do not normally act like that when I am single, I think it is something to do with being a full time mum and feeling frumpy and old before my time.

But I felt like I was looking great that night as very rarely dress up, and when I do it bosts my confidence...

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mummytowillow · 23/01/2009 22:14

I'm very

Get yerself a f--k buddy!! No strings, safe sex of course, what more could you ask for!!

Can't believe you only kissed him, hope it was a full on snog!

newlysinglemummy · 23/01/2009 22:24

yes it was but i'm soooo glad it did not go any further or else I would have to quit my job lol.

yes I do need a f buddy, but I think it would have to someone I dont like too much or else might start to like him too much and have another relationship, which would be terrible as need to be single for a change, as have had very little single time from the age of 16...

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