Please help me, when my brother died 2 yrs ago i phoned my brother C and to say sorry and was told by the wife that he was sleeping, i later spoke to my sister and she said she had been told the same thing, they had not been talking to each other when he G died, fair enough i was wasnt talking to C either but i thought we could bury the hatchet and mourn together.
My father passed away 3 mths ago and i received a text from my sister " dad dead" i was so upset so i phoned my brother c and his wife said he was sleeping-later on talked to five other people that the wife had told them the same thing.
I have not met my brother in the last four years but my sil has kept in touch i wish not to have anything to do with either so wish to break contact. She is a nice person but i feel she reports back to him.