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AIBU to expect to find a "Parent and Child" space when I go to the supermarket?

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BikeRunSki · 19/01/2009 21:43

I tend to shop at a huge Asda. We live in the countryside and it is our nearest supermarket.

Since DS was born 19 weeks ago, I guess I have been about 10 times. I always check out the Parent spaces and, so far, have never found one free. So I end up parking at the very far end of the car park where I can find two or three spaces together so I can open the car doors to get DS's car seat out and carry him miles to the shop. A lot of the time there have been cars in the P&C spaces that I suspect are not actually P&S cars (two seaters, sports cars with luggage all over the back seat).

On about half my visits there have not been any of those trolleys that I can put his car seat in either.

I have asked customer services if they could consider adding more P&C spaces or policing the existing ones. They have not been interested and have suggested that I shop at different times of day, although all my vists have been at different times of day! (well morning or afternoon, DS hasn't really got into 24hr shopping yet).

I would shop online, but they won't come to us.

The flip side is that our local economy is thriving as I can't be bothered with the big supermarkets any more. But they are handy for things like cans and breakfast cereal.

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wotulookinat · 19/01/2009 23:38

oh that's ok then

(pass the popcorn though: I've got pmt and I have the munchies)

fryalot · 19/01/2009 23:39
StarlightMcKenzie · 19/01/2009 23:40

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fryalot · 19/01/2009 23:42

good point, starlight.

The thing that gets me is that I have two littlies and the extra space at the side of the P & T spaces are invaluable in ensuring that I don't bash the cars either side of me when lifting them in/out of the car.

So it's not really for my sake that I want one of those spaces, it's for the sake of the people who own the cars either side of the teeny tiny space I am forced to park in when they're all taken.

MrsBrendaDyson · 19/01/2009 23:42

i think throw and egg at it - could be used for a miriad of MN arguments.

fryalot · 19/01/2009 23:44

we could campaign for a new acronym: TAEAI

MrsBrendaDyson · 19/01/2009 23:44

what gets me, is all the moaning parents - HAVE YOU NO SENSE?????????

its clear to me lateral thinking is in order

put your baby in the boot dumbo. that way you can get him out if you have a hatchback.

MrsBrendaDyson · 19/01/2009 23:45

i am going to put that in baby names

Baby Names: what Do you Think of Taeai?

MrsBrendaDyson · 19/01/2009 23:45

i am off to employ my own advice around the board.

fryalot · 19/01/2009 23:45

Is that pronounced like Tee-Eye

SparklyGothKat · 19/01/2009 23:48

oooo pass the popcorn please

fryalot · 19/01/2009 23:49
StarlightMcKenzie · 19/01/2009 23:49

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MrsBrendaDyson · 19/01/2009 23:52

dont be so ridic!

its pronounced tay eye of course.

fryalot · 19/01/2009 23:54

aaah, my mistake.

Must be my commonness northernness showing through

KristinaM · 19/01/2009 23:56

are you trying to choose a name with as many vowels as possibel?

CharCharGabor · 19/01/2009 23:56

roffle at taeai I am so going to use that!

saphron · 19/01/2009 23:57

[roll eyes emoticon]

StarlightMcKenzie · 20/01/2009 00:01

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Lurkinaround · 20/01/2009 00:02

Have you tried throwing an egg at it?

MrsBrendaDyson · 20/01/2009 00:03

@ her oe him

sure taeah works

StarlightMcKenzie · 20/01/2009 00:08

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Simplysally · 20/01/2009 00:16

If they're parent and child spaces, it's different to parent and toddler spaces surely?

I could take my Mum shopping and park in a P & C space and not break any rules (one parent - Mum: one child - me). A P & T space would need me to borrow a toddler first.

mm22bys · 20/01/2009 06:47

I wish this was my greatest gripe with the world....

wotulookinat · 20/01/2009 09:46

what's your greatest gripe then?