Know exactly what you mean ! DH and I work for the same company, so of course I have to work out our shift patterns and write out both sets of leave slips (which he then signs) AND I then have to arange with the CM to have DD's, pack the cases for myself and the DD's (he does do his own packing, bt never the girls'), order the shopping ready for when we get back ......... Need I go on ??? Work actually send his leave forms to me now as they know I sort it all out !!