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Original poster

To be annoyed at XP telling my kid sister all the details of our sex life.

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AbsolutelyOutraged · 15/01/2009 22:46

I was speaking to my younger sister yesterday when i said to her "remember XXXX? he has a kid now and lives in Latvia with his new wife"

The my sister told me that she used to sit with him whilst she waited for her bus to work and he used to tell her all the details of things we had done

Sexual things!!!

I am so annoyed at him but can't get in contact with him because of him living abroad.

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nametaken · 15/01/2009 22:48

Go job he's your ex then. Did he have to get a subservient Latvian wife coz he couldn't cope with a fiesty westerner?

How old was your sister when he was telling her these things.

CandleQueen · 15/01/2009 22:49

Get over it. Yes it was wrong of him, but it was obviously years ago.

dsrplus8 · 15/01/2009 22:49

wtf!!!! hes a mentalist , thank god hes an ex!

Original poster
AbsolutelyOutraged · 15/01/2009 22:49

Its a good job she didn't really care what he said and is quite open-minded, last time I knew he was an alcoholic, so that probably explains why.

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nametaken · 15/01/2009 22:50

Are you a newbie?

SlartyBartFast · 15/01/2009 22:51

what a wanker, your ex p

beanieb · 15/01/2009 22:51

Who said his wife was subservient?

Original poster
AbsolutelyOutraged · 15/01/2009 22:51

It was last year he told my (then) 17 year old sister.

Ir was only yesterday I found out, that is why I am so furious still

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SlartyBartFast · 15/01/2009 22:51

my sister had boyfriends rather like him.

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AbsolutelyOutraged · 15/01/2009 22:52

Not a newbie but I felt embarressed by this, will reveal my identity if need be but would rather not if its all the same.

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nametaken · 15/01/2009 22:53

No-one said his wife was subservient. I asked if she was.

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AbsolutelyOutraged · 15/01/2009 22:53

embarrassed

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CandleQueen · 15/01/2009 22:55

She was 17 and waiting for a bus to work. Old enough to do all the stuff you were doing with BF!
(What I mean is, he wasn't corrupting an innocent 13YO school girl)
But yes I agree with Slarty, he sounds like a wanker

nametaken · 15/01/2009 22:55

Why embarressed? you haven't done anything wrong and you're not telling us the details, so unless you were sheep-shagging or some such unsavoury practice I wouldn't worry about it.

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AbsolutelyOutraged · 15/01/2009 22:58

I suppose other people might not be embarrassed, I don't like talking about things to do with sex though.

I don't know if she was subserviant, have never met her.

I do know that he was single when my sister was talking to him though, which was a year ago last september.

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Original poster
AbsolutelyOutraged · 15/01/2009 22:59

He told my sister that I had sex with him then with his best friend.

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nametaken · 15/01/2009 23:00

I'm confused - AbsolutelyOutraged and CandleQueen do you know each other? Are you the same person? How odd.

CandleQueen · 15/01/2009 23:00

Did you?!

CandleQueen · 15/01/2009 23:01

What's odd? I'm not AbsOut and don't quite know what you're getting at?

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AbsolutelyOutraged · 15/01/2009 23:03

I really don't know, I don't actually remember the night in question. He also told her that I left my underwear there, but I don't remember that either.

A bit of background info, I used to take alot of pills and acid in my teens, drink alot and there is a big proportion of my life I don't remember clearly

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CandleQueen · 15/01/2009 23:04

Well then your sister was probably not shocked by anything your ExBF had to say...

nametaken · 15/01/2009 23:04

It's odd that you said

"She was 17 and waiting for a bus to work. Old enough to do all the stuff you were doing with BF!
(What I mean is, he wasn't corrupting an innocent 13YO school girl)"

When the OP didn't mention any of that.

That's why I asked if you knew each other.

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AbsolutelyOutraged · 15/01/2009 23:06

By AbsolutelyOutraged on Thu 15-Jan-09 22:46:30
I was speaking to my younger sister yesterday when i said to her "remember XXXX? he has a kid now and lives in Latvia with his new wife"

The my sister told me that she used to sit with him whilst she waited for her bus to work and he used to tell her all the details of things we had done

By AbsolutelyOutraged on Thu 15-Jan-09 22:51:24
It was last year he told my (then) 17 year old sister.

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SlartyBartFast · 15/01/2009 23:07

op did mention age of sister

nametaken · 15/01/2009 23:07

Ah, that would explain it .