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To be irritated by women who are sanctimonious about breastfeeding then go and wean their little darlings at some ridiculously young age

127 replies

bangandthedirtisgone · 15/01/2009 20:20

This is not a rant against early weaning, formula feeding, or breastfeeding - I need to say that now.

But, I have to be totally honest it gets right on my tits when women crow about how they breastfed then reveal that they weaned their babies at 12 weeks (I know 3 people like this).

I mean ffs if you're going to boast about following guidelines then at least actually follow them!

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ScottishMummy · 15/01/2009 20:59

Hi bangandthedirtisgone so many things to get yer goat about motherhood.why this.who's irked you

baby olympics get's my goat every time

ach yes princess is a grade V cellist,reads hebrew,speaks mandarin....how is your wee one -walking yet?

bangandthedirtisgone · 15/01/2009 21:01

SM.

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loobeylou · 15/01/2009 21:03

when I had my first DD the guidelines for first solid was 4 months. But I had a big baby (10lb) and she was SO HUNGRY that I started 2 weeks sooner, on the HV advice. In real terms she was "older" as was 16 days overdue! sometimes, you HAVE to bend the rules, led by the baby. If I was having another now and it was a big, healthy hungry baby, I would still start to introduce a bit of solids sooner than the recommended 6 mths

bangandthedirtisgone · 15/01/2009 21:04

Loobey, my lovely, lovely woman. I am NOT knocking you for weaning at 4 months. This thread is not attacking you. HONEST.

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PeppermintPatty · 15/01/2009 21:09

YANBU.
People who are santimonious about breastfeeding are irritating regardless of when they weaned their baby.

hunkermunker · 15/01/2009 21:12

Oh, do you have to?

Jeez!

ScottishMummy · 15/01/2009 21:13

breast feeding zealots with all the stats,research and overall smugness are fair target

ib · 15/01/2009 21:14

I'm still bfing ds (2 yo) and I weaned really early - because several paediatricians including a gastroenterology specialist advised me to do so.

Clearly I'm a numpty

hunkermunker · 15/01/2009 21:14

I was referring to the OP, btw.

LynetteScavo · 15/01/2009 21:19

I think it's strange you know three people who crow about how they breastfed, and three people who have weaned at 12 weeks, let alone three people who have done both! Remarkable.

Doodle2U · 15/01/2009 21:19

do women crow about breastfeeding? I've never, ever met a woman who crowed about which method she got milk into her child. EVER!

bangandthedirtisgone · 15/01/2009 21:20

Fuck me lynette, it's almost like you want to accuse me of lying but don't actually have the guts to do it.

Hunker, yes, yes I do. No one's having a go at you, alright love?

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TheCrackFox · 15/01/2009 21:21

When I was a baby it was normal to wean at 2 weeks. How old are these women you are whining about?

BouncingTurtle · 15/01/2009 21:21

I'm not really sanctimonious...

hunkermunker · 15/01/2009 21:23

Oh, whatever. You're clearly in the mood for a ruck.

bangandthedirtisgone · 15/01/2009 21:25

Firstly crackfox, I'm not whining, I'm bitching, let's make that clear, ok?

Secondly, as I've already said, their babies are still babies, they're between the ages of 29 and 36.

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Doodle2U · 15/01/2009 21:28

I hope the wasp that flew up your arse asphyxiates soon Bang.

bangandthedirtisgone · 15/01/2009 21:29

Thanks doodle, that's a lovely sentiment, I appreciate it.

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Doodle2U · 15/01/2009 21:33

My pleasure.

Now what in Gawds name started off this rant?

Rindercella · 15/01/2009 21:37

You're just odd.

Doodle2U · 15/01/2009 21:38

I am not.

Rindercella · 15/01/2009 21:38
Grin
Doodle2U · 15/01/2009 21:39
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LittleBella · 15/01/2009 21:43

"breast feeding zealots with all the stats,research"

So um, having a bit of information is automatically smug is it?

Oh dear.

LynetteScavo · 15/01/2009 21:50

Are YUBU to be irritated? No, YANBU, but

You seem to have miss uunderstood my post, bang. Maybe you know a lot you young mums.

Personally I've never met any one who crowed about breast feeding, and the only people I know who weaned their babies at 12 weeks are over 50.

As you say yourself, fuck you.