to be pissed off with dp for being inconsiderate?

[TLESinChristmasStockings]

ok here it is...

every week dp takes ds1 fishing and they just couldn't wait until after xmas to go again. Now I don't have a prob with this as such BUT i said to him last night check the bank first (am waiting for some money to go in) before you go. Anyways they leave me sleeping...probably i didn't hear them go as i was up until silly o'clock. So i get up with ds2 at 8.30am and check the bank...expecting there to be £40 at least for me to go out as planned...BUT no there is £9 and i can't go out.

DP took insurance out on a load of electricals we bought in august so the dd for them has gone out plus he took the money for fishing.

I can't phone him as after an argument with t-mobile and us refusing to pay the bill (we already paid and they say we didn't) the phones are cut off. I can't get to where he is it is about 40miles away.

I am so fecked off he was totally inconsiderate. I know that by the time i have sat indoors all day i will be spitting feathers tonight when they get home.

I can understand that you're pissed off, especially if you were looking forward to going out, but it's a crap time of year to be narked with each other. Can you do anything nice indoors with DS2 for the day (snuggle up in front of Christmassy films, make cookies etc.) and try not to dwell on it? What's done is done so you might as well not spoil their day as well as yours!

These things are frustrating, but remeber that men don't often think in advance where domestic things are concerned. I have had alot of deaths around me lately and I have come to know that each day is precious, it is not worth spoiling the day over money, try and find something else to do. Its fantastic that you husband takes your son out fishing, how many dads do that.

I hope that you have a good day despite your money troubles.

As dolly parton says 'dont sweat the small stuff'

Sunny ds2 is only 15m old so is not easy to snuggle in front of a film lol. Was meant to be going to the bear factory to get them both a small bear to add to collection.

Believer...i thought it was usual for dads to do things with dc lol. It was my idea they started to go as we normally all go and i felt that they needed some time to bond and get to know eachother better. DP is not DS1's father but is his dad iyswim?

Oh well I suppose i can always spend all day on here.......well while ds2 naps.