for getting annoyed with dh when he whines all day how tired he is...

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... and then stays up till stupid o'clock every night to watch rubbish telly

is he related to my DH??

Are we married to the same man?

YANBU BUT I do this a lot and it is always when I am very unhappy or depressed. I am tired in the day because I haven't slept enough and also because i am always tired when unhappy but as evening arrives I really don't want to go to bed. There are two main reasons for this.

1 - I am desperate for time to myself as I tend to isolate myself when unhappy

2 - Going to bed just makes the next day come quicker and frankly I don't want it to.

This may not be the case for your dh though it is for me. Have you asked him why he doesn't go to bed earlier if he is tired. And when I say ask I mean in a tone that is friendly and not too annoyed - difficult to do I know when he is probably being incredibly annoying but if you genuinely want an answer then asking him is the only way to get one.

Hey its my DP!!! lol Only he stays up to play on the computer.

YANBU at all. My DH moans about how tired he is and then goes to bed at 9pm most nights. So technically, he is tired - but what grown man needs 10 hours sleep a night?? (apart from DH of course)
He never does any childcare in the night at all, and then says he has to get his sleep because he works all day.

He does have the grace to realise he is lucky he doesn't get a frying pan round his head when he starts moaning...

He said to me just now "we don't have to get up early tomorrow do we"

erm... so that means I'll get up with ds then I guess

why are you up until stupid o'clock on MN then?

bless you ScottishMummy, I can always trust you to pop up on one of my aibu threads and put the boot in

And isn't the answer obvious anyway?

I'm being kept up by the extremely important Moldiegate situation...