My mate got back from Ireland on Monday,.He rang weds and we arranged for him to pop by this afternoon Fri [ i was busy yesterday] Got house tidy and waited....and waited..no show I texted him at 8.30pm to ask if he'd still be coming and he texted back at 9pm saying that he was really poorly,sick n dying but he'd pop over tomorrow Sat [miracle recovery]. He has let me down before and does tend to tell the odd fib if he forgets, I know it sounds mad but I still have xmas stuff to get and have to take my daughter in her electric w/chair so it's quite hectic ATM so to 'waste' a day just waiting in has made me quite mad. Tomorrow daytime my daughters B/F is coming to visit [he's also w/chair user, dad drops him off]sunday were at a show, monday were at another show so I know it's going to be a last manic rush . AIBU? just to expect him to have texted me in the morning to let me know he could'nt come? would it not have been common good manners in the week before xmas? or am I being a little harsh?.