As part of DS's xmas gifts he is getting football tickets to go a game on boxing day with his Dad .
DP has seen a Mum from school and offered to take her son (A)aswell ,now usually this would not be a problem but because its Boxing Day it is .I am not a heartless cow who wont let her son have friends honest .
On boxing day we always go to my Grans and see family members who we don't see for the rest of the year (including dd's Godparents).
DP and DS are going to meet us there after the game and then we are going to have to walk home with gifts ,5 dc (6 if A friend comes) in the dark.
The other thing is that although DS and A were good friends for a couple of years they have drifted apart and dont really play together anymore ,and A is going to have to sit and watch DS open gifts which wont be very nice for an 11 year old and I don't think spending boxing day afternoon with a bunch of strangers is going to be that nice for A .