OK I *know* I am but I want to have a bit of a growl and spit about DS' dad.

[solidgoldbrass]

He's a great dad and a good co-parent, but tonight I have remembered very thoroughly why I am really glad we are not in, and not going to be in, a couple relationship.
Cheeky fucking no-brainer mundane self-righteous COCK!

we need details . it'll help you, honest.

You've forgotten to tell us what he's done to be worthy of such cockness!

What's he done?

OK, it's about this. I mentioned it to DS' dad, who reckons that I am being unreasonable to be concerned about this aspect of an otherwise appealing school and then said 'You need to learn when to button it and shut up.'
Grr. Grrrrrrrrr. He thinks he's such a fucking daring radical and yet he is straight as they come (and yes IABU I know... I am just feeling very fucking growly...)