today is my fils 64th birthday.ive got BRILLIANT PILS theyre always there when we need them,but never interfer.ive got 3 kids from my first marriage and the pil have adopted them as their real grandchildren,take them for days out exc,as much as their biological grandchildren,always bring them little treats ect,(ask me first before giving them)kids call them gran and grandad, love them to bits(me too).they babysit so i can go out to work part time and give us lifts anywere, anytime,and drive me to work.so because theyre so fab,i went a wee bit mental and dh is a wee bit annoyed, but( because things are a wee bit tight with being near xmass, we have 8 kids)hes delighted at the same time,we got him a bottle of whisky(grandad juice lol).it didnt seem special enough so i also got fil a silverflask thingy with grandad on the side,and then i paid for a very nice bottle of wine at the resturaunt pil and their friends are going to on saturday. i just wanted to show that we appreciate what he does for us,and spoil him a wee bit.i had nightmare ex pil before(and nightmare exh)am i wrong? did i go ott, and make an arse of myself???.