I am in panto this year and have been going to rehersals every monday and wednessday for a few weeks. It's in the evenings when the kids are in bed so i asked dp if he minded,
'no not at all' he says
I then get a rehersal schedual and tell him it would envolve 2 all day weekend rehersals, again i asked dp if he would mind becuase he would be with both ds's all day,
'no it's fine he says'
I did one all dayer last Saturday and it was fine, but next Sunday i have been asked to do 9am - to possible 9pm at the latest and dp is moaning his arse off about it because this time he will have to give the boys dinner and put them to bed!
It's not something i have ever done before and i personally don't see the problem, it is 2 days of the year and won't happen again untill next years panto and he had already agreed!
I would do the same for him but he is really miffed now. AIBU?