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to think that just because i'm irish, people should not keep asking me if i am a traveller???

95 replies

maggottinfestedbodybag · 17/11/2008 20:55

wtf

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fishie · 17/11/2008 20:55

what people? where? when?

tiredsville · 17/11/2008 20:56

Are you serious?

AnarchyAunt · 17/11/2008 20:57

YANBU.

Nothing wrong with being a traveller.

But not an assumption I would instantly make on the basis that someone was Irish.

jenkel · 17/11/2008 20:58

I know a lot of Irish people, southern and northern and it would never cross my mind to assume that they are travellers. So if people do ask I dont think you are being at all unreasonable, I think they are being very rude

ZZZen · 17/11/2008 20:58

we need to know more.

nickytwotimes · 17/11/2008 21:00

Seriously?
Who are these people?

allytjd · 17/11/2008 21:03

It could be on official forms, I have noticed questions like that on those bits of forms where you have to tick boxes to record your ethnic group

maggottinfestedbodybag · 17/11/2008 21:45

people i meet in allsorts of places.

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gracie101 · 17/11/2008 21:45

Do you have big gold earrings and keep trying to sell people a sofa out of the back of a lorry?

ginnny · 17/11/2008 21:46

What sort of places do you go?
I'd never ask that
Dp is from a large Irish family and I'm sure they've never been asked that.
That's really shocking!

maggottinfestedbodybag · 17/11/2008 21:47

gracey i'm reporting you thats really offensive.

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nellynaemates · 17/11/2008 21:47

All sorts of places eh? So does that mean you travel a bit then?

Sorry, couldn't resist. Think they are being a tad rude though.

maggottinfestedbodybag · 17/11/2008 21:48

shops, parks swimming etc

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gracie101 · 17/11/2008 21:48

It's a bloody joke. IT WAS A JOKE.

LynetteScavo · 17/11/2008 21:50

But are they asking just because you are Irish?

I bet Gloria Huniford has never been asked if she's a traveller.

thumbwitch · 17/11/2008 21:50

not sure why people would assume you are a traveller unless you also look like you live in a trailer. An Irish accent certainly wouldn't be the only factor for most people, I'm sure. Unless you just know a lot of very rude people or live in an area where the only other Irish people are travellers, of course.

fishie · 17/11/2008 21:51

gracie it wasn't funny.

maggot where do you live? why are they asking this?

BouncingTurtle · 17/11/2008 21:51

Or Terry Wogan!

Half my family is Irish, they've never been taken for travellers.

What an odd OP

LynetteScavo · 17/11/2008 21:52

I got it, gracie.

Is there something wrong with being a traveller, magot?

megcleary · 17/11/2008 21:52

i think maggot is a troll

LynetteScavo · 17/11/2008 21:53

I bet Gloria Humiford and Terry Wogan do travel quite a lot though.

LynetteScavo · 17/11/2008 21:54

Do you talk about your caravan a lot?

AnarchyAunt · 17/11/2008 21:54

Whereabouts do you live (ish)? Are there a lot of travellers there?

I get asked if I'm a traveller/weed dealer fairly often just because I have dreadlocks It is a little annoying, but I don't generally get offended by it unless they are asking in an 'oh-god-I-hope-not' way.

Then I glare at them and mutter rude things.

combustiblelemon · 17/11/2008 21:55

Again??? Don't you get bored Bodybag?

You've asked for advice on how to kill hedgehogs.

You've gone on about your fat SIL breaking your child's £100 rocking horse.

You've moaned about someome woman taking maternity leaves too close together.

Now another post that's inflammatory and probably has less factual basis than Jeffery Archer's Autobiography.

gracie101 · 17/11/2008 21:57

I'm a northerner so people often accuse me of being a car

thief. bastards.

I can't usually hear them that well though cos I'm

5 miles down the M6 with their Vauxhall Nova by then.

VVVVV

(THIS IS A JOKE DON'T REPORT ME)