to want to book a holiday, because ive been seriously ill and so has dh we are totally wiped out, but we can't really afford it

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but i think it would do us the world of good.

even a weekend in a b and b would give us a much needed break

go for it. You say you both need it, so why not?

thats fc.

we have both been really ill

one night away is not going to break the bank is it.

it depends if the worrying about the cost will make things worse or if you can shrug it off tbh. I am a worrier so it would do me no good

sometimes you just gotta do it.

a few weeks ago I booked me and dp into a premier inn at the last minute as we were going to cardiff for an event anyway and having even just one night away made us feel so much better.

am sure you can find somewhere cheap.

i agree with flame.

sorry, but i wouldn't do it.

we have about £3500 worth of debt we will have to really struggle to get rid of and adding more to it would just stress both of us out.

If it's not going to screw you up financially, then go for it.

could you clear the decks and have a really lovely weekend at home - no housework or chores, just fun stuff?

travelodge are doing rooms really cheap at the mo, it was £9 for a while, but if that offers not on, they always have roooms starting at £19 a night if you book a certain amount of time in advance.

don't think we could just do it at home, think we really need a weekend away

mh thanks i will lokk at travellodge website.