to have to have another discussion about the same household tasks?

[carocaro]

If there is a basket of clean washing at the bottom of the stairs TAKE IT UP WHEN YOU GO!

I have a child in my arms most of the time when up and down the stairs.

And just because you work from home sometimes, this does not exlude you from putting dishes in the dishwasher, putting some washing on or GOD FORBID think about what we are having for dinner.

You spend more time having a poo whilst reading the paper tha you do giving me a hand.

Can you just not just dot, not to be told to do it.

F ME - like with 3 males is quite exhausting.

My OH can never, ever wash up properly. He either leaves something behind or the washed stuff is still dirty, or both. It's only been 3.5 years of asking but it still happens.....

same boat here - tho thankfully no stairs!

Perhaps a Star Chart? There are always being recommended in the parenting section.

[ok I nicked that joke from Private Eye but it made me ROFL]