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To tell somerfield that my DDs coat that was damaged in the store today cost over £20 when actually it only cost me £3 in a charity shop.

103 replies

exasperatedmummy · 06/11/2008 17:52

Because it was THEIR FAULT that my DD fell over and hurt herself and ended up covered in fresh cream.

Oh, and you are going to love this - after i had shouted at the young lad to get the manager, she turned up and went to get the accident book. No one offered me any help to clean up dd and she was screaming because she was "dirty". I went and opened a packet of kitchen towels to wipe the cream off. The guy then can and shouted at me that "you can't just do that", i was going to fucking well PAY for it (well actually i probably wasn't going to because i figured they might say, hey, no problem). I totally lost it, and i mean i lost it - i had to scream at this guy to get away from me, partly because he was upsetting DD but mostly because if he had stayed "in my face" i think i might have landed one on him.

I was actually mortified at losing my temper and i had to go in the office and calm down. The manager woman was OK, but things were handled badly - all the bloke could say was "she should have seen the sign" SHE IS THREE FUCKING YEARS OLD AND FUNNILY ENOUGH CAN'T READ YET!!! [ANGRY]. My gripe with tthat is that the pot should have been picked up and a sign put up, then the cleaning stuff fetched. We had been standing there for ages and no one had appeared, its just that DD walked straight into it, the sign was Beside it - i was livid, demented almost with rage. I have never ever lost my temper like that before - am pretty sure i actually see red.

So, to have them compensate me £20 for a coat is quite just i feel. I could have pushed for more as the coat came from GAP and i know they were £45 last year, but i did only pay £3 for it. I don't think £20 will bust their banks will it.

If i hadn't have been treated so badly after the incident i would probably have let it ride, there WAS a sign, it wasn't anyones actual fault. All it would have took was one person to come up to me and say, "oh dear, is she Ok, here, let me help you" Grrrrrr

OP posts:
BoysAreLikeDawgs · 06/11/2008 21:44

Gwan , you can tell me

TheFallenMadonna · 06/11/2008 21:45

I'm thinking fruit flies (or something like that). Am I way out? I generally have no idea who namechangers are.

BoysAreLikeDawgs · 06/11/2008 21:47

Fruit flies like a banana but time flies like an arrow

BoysAreLikeDawgs · 06/11/2008 21:51

I do hope someone appreciates my bon mots

TheFallenMadonna · 06/11/2008 21:52

I was appreciating them in awed silence.

MadCreamLady · 06/11/2008 21:56

nup - not drosophila, actually, i haven't seen her for a while, i wonder where she went?

NotDoingTheHousework · 06/11/2008 21:58

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BoysAreLikeDawgs · 06/11/2008 21:59

Awwwwww not fair.

I want to know.

[pout]

BoysAreLikeDawgs · 06/11/2008 21:59

arf at FM

TheFallenMadonna · 06/11/2008 22:01

Then I apologise for my unwarranted comments on your character.

Habbibu · 06/11/2008 22:15

I know who you are too, I think - have you in recent times done a higher degree? - can you add the "Fresh" bit into your name - that struck me from the OP - do you think you'd have been more or less upset if it'd been elmlea?!

TheFallenMadonna · 06/11/2008 22:19

Oooh, no. Hang on. We are misunderstanding each other I think.

I don't think you are drosophila. I think you are someone with whom I once had a conversation about fruit fly genetics.

MadCreamLady · 06/11/2008 22:19

Habbibua - you have hit the nail on the head, it was fucking elmlea

Madelmlealady doesnt have the same ring either

BoysAreLikeDawgs · 06/11/2008 22:20

[grumpy]

MadCreamLady · 06/11/2008 22:20

but FM, lots of people have conversations about fly genetics

BoysAreLikeDawgs · 06/11/2008 22:21

[perplexed]

TheFallenMadonna · 06/11/2008 22:21

If only that were true....

Habbibu · 06/11/2008 22:21

You should have been outraged about that instead - "there is elmlea on my daughter's coat! And it's not even organic! Oh, the shame, the shame".

Habbibu · 06/11/2008 22:22

Anyway, MadElmleaLady, you've completed a higher degree reasonably recently, am I right?

MadCreamLady · 06/11/2008 22:24

Do you think i would have received more sympathy if had said it was elmlea? Its quite an affront to my personal sense of taste i can tell you.

morningpaper · 06/11/2008 22:38

Elmlea is pretty bad TBH

Habbibu · 06/11/2008 22:41

It's Mumsnet, MadElmleaLady. Now, if you'd said it was elmlea and a boden coat, it'd have been a whole nother story.

MadCreamLady · 06/11/2008 22:45

well quite, and in answer to your previous Q, yes, i did a couple of years ago, i think its calming effects on my personality are wearing off, im regressing to chavhood.

BoysAreLikeDawgs · 06/11/2008 22:47

ELMLEA

Wezzle · 06/11/2008 22:51

Ah, I think I know who you are

Sorry to hear about the Elmlea incident...no wonder you freaked