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AIBU?

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To tell somerfield that my DDs coat that was damaged in the store today cost over £20 when actually it only cost me £3 in a charity shop.

103 replies

exasperatedmummy · 06/11/2008 17:52

Because it was THEIR FAULT that my DD fell over and hurt herself and ended up covered in fresh cream.

Oh, and you are going to love this - after i had shouted at the young lad to get the manager, she turned up and went to get the accident book. No one offered me any help to clean up dd and she was screaming because she was "dirty". I went and opened a packet of kitchen towels to wipe the cream off. The guy then can and shouted at me that "you can't just do that", i was going to fucking well PAY for it (well actually i probably wasn't going to because i figured they might say, hey, no problem). I totally lost it, and i mean i lost it - i had to scream at this guy to get away from me, partly because he was upsetting DD but mostly because if he had stayed "in my face" i think i might have landed one on him.

I was actually mortified at losing my temper and i had to go in the office and calm down. The manager woman was OK, but things were handled badly - all the bloke could say was "she should have seen the sign" SHE IS THREE FUCKING YEARS OLD AND FUNNILY ENOUGH CAN'T READ YET!!! [ANGRY]. My gripe with tthat is that the pot should have been picked up and a sign put up, then the cleaning stuff fetched. We had been standing there for ages and no one had appeared, its just that DD walked straight into it, the sign was Beside it - i was livid, demented almost with rage. I have never ever lost my temper like that before - am pretty sure i actually see red.

So, to have them compensate me £20 for a coat is quite just i feel. I could have pushed for more as the coat came from GAP and i know they were £45 last year, but i did only pay £3 for it. I don't think £20 will bust their banks will it.

If i hadn't have been treated so badly after the incident i would probably have let it ride, there WAS a sign, it wasn't anyones actual fault. All it would have took was one person to come up to me and say, "oh dear, is she Ok, here, let me help you" Grrrrrr

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exasperatedmummy · 06/11/2008 20:40

To be honest i am totally surprised and embarrased that i reacted the way i did today - i think the end of my tether had just been passed on the way to the shop, flat tyre on pushchair, un mendable, DD had to walk, had loads of stuff to juggle, not in a good mood - but even so, mad cream lady - its not a good image is it.

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pointydog · 06/11/2008 20:40

YABU

it's lying and greedy and I don't like that

nickytwotimes · 06/11/2008 20:41

em, I think you moght have a possible new name option there. Quick - go and register madcreamlady for future use!

squeakypop · 06/11/2008 20:42

Did you really use the F-word?

angelswithdirtyfaces · 06/11/2008 20:49

When I read the title, I thought why not? But after having read your tale, I think YABVU amd cheeky to ask for ANY compensation.

Cream will not have damaged the coat - surley? Can't you just wash it. I think it was you making your DD upset by causing such a fuss over not a lot.

I can't believe how mad you went. for you.

cheesesarnie · 06/11/2008 20:50

yabu.are you real??????
your dd is ok.she got cream on her coat.your lying about cost of it.

dont know what to say.

nolongeraworriedmummyfied · 06/11/2008 21:01

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boogiewoogie · 06/11/2008 21:02

Not at all unreasonable to be upset and angry that your dd got hurt and her coat soiled. However, expecting compensation and lying about it is. I would have written a letter of complaint about this young man's incompetence instead.

Two wrongs don't make a right.

morningpaper · 06/11/2008 21:03

madcreamlady would be a GREAT name

exasperatedmummy · 06/11/2008 21:04

um, can everyone please stop telling me IABU i know OK!!! I am embarrased now!!! .

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OrmIrian · 06/11/2008 21:04

Bloody hell! It's cream not sulphuric acid.

I'm not surprised they didn't get the manager immediately. He probably thought you were dangerously deranged and was intending to run for his life .

And no you can't ask for that much money. Can't it just go in the washing machine?

exasperatedmummy · 06/11/2008 21:05

Yes well morning paper, i might just change to it

I was an arse, wasn't i?

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morningpaper · 06/11/2008 21:06

a BIT of an arse yes

go on change it, we will ALL recognise you

BoysAreLikeDawgs · 06/11/2008 21:08

Scary cream lady - dignified retraction there

Well done at recognising that shouty/red mist combo is not a Good Thing

BoysAreLikeDawgs · 06/11/2008 21:09

Now reveal please !!!

janeite · 06/11/2008 21:13

You sound totally sane and none mad/scarycreamlady now. Good to see you've got your sense of perspective back - and retained your sense of humour. Well done you!

nolongeraworriedmummyfied · 06/11/2008 21:14

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Kimi · 06/11/2008 21:18

I think the lad in the shop was rude to take the kitchen roll off of you, I don't think it was unreasonable to say the coat cost more then it did, shouting does not help anyone really though.

I was in Iceland the other week when this woman tried pushing her pushchair through a far too small space, her child decided to kick the pile of pot noodle over as she could now reach it and so pot noodle went flying (best thing for it really ) woman then started yelling her child had been "hit" by falling pot noodle (um no she was not) mother and granny were demanding the manager the accident book, saying "look at her face look at her face" (sod all wrong with her face) mother really kicking off about suing them and so on .

I did say to the manager on the way out I had seen the whole thing, kid kicked pile over and had not been hit by ant of it.
I felt quite sorry for the poor staff TBH

MadCreamLady · 06/11/2008 21:24

I would be quite interested to see who lulumama actually thinks i was

Gettingbiggernow · 06/11/2008 21:28

Late to this thread but wanted to add - my mum was a big one for getting very prickly (sometimes one could say arsy!!) in shops with assistants and regardless of the fact that the errant staff mostly (but not always ) deserved a mouthful, never mind them just think of the effect on your DD.

It is scary to see your mum lose her temper especially in public and when you don't really understand why, because it isn't YOU who has done anything but all you know is your mum is going off on one, there is discord/bad atmosphere all round and it is quite frightening. We never knew when the next tirade was going to start. I know Creamgate thing must have been annoying though .

TheFallenMadonna · 06/11/2008 21:30

If you are who I think you are, then it isn't that out of character really, is it?

nolongeraworriedmummyfied · 06/11/2008 21:34

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BoysAreLikeDawgs · 06/11/2008 21:34

Oh I want to know who you are, nice calm fluffy person

MadCreamLady · 06/11/2008 21:36

well WHO do you think i am FM? i have namechanged a whileback. Go on, havea guess - im quite intrigued

MadCreamLady · 06/11/2008 21:37

BALD - I am nice, but calm and fluffy - um, nah

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