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To be very upset about my step sister joining this facebook 'group'

99 replies

mamakim · 23/10/2008 21:01

Just been on fb and on the newsfeed i saw my ss has joined a group entitled "for anyone who hates all packies"! Her dad married my mum a year ago and we're recently become friends. She's quiet different to me but seeing as we're now related i make an effort with her. Her dd is a similar age to my ds so we've been on playdates, out of lunch etc. Now i have seen this i feel utterly discusted. I want to have nothing to do with her. What should i do? Confront her about it? Ignore it and just be casual with her at family gettogethers? I'm really shocked. I didn't ever imagine such an attitude from her. I have never seen any signs of this. Oh and surely facebook should ban such 'groups'?

OP posts:
Boco · 23/10/2008 21:36

Have also reported it. That boy person who started is is a poisonous little fucker isn't he!

mamakim · 23/10/2008 21:37

I do think i should say something, however my mum and her dad are so lovely and i don't want to make everything uncomfortable for them if you see what i mean. Ugh.

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theSuburbanDryad · 23/10/2008 21:37

I've never had any of my bf-ing pics deleted/reported on FB.

This group should deffo be removed though. The trouble is that FB is HUUUUGE and the administrators can't police everything - so they rely on other members reporting them.

harleyd · 23/10/2008 21:37

i dont have facebook so cant see what its all about, but its ridiculous that groups like this can be formed

peenutt · 23/10/2008 21:37

she probably joined by mistake tis not hard i have done it meself once or twice you know what it's like some twat sends you an invite and you just click on it. she must have realised her mistake if you say shes not on the list anymore.

mamakim · 23/10/2008 21:39

Maybe it was a mistake? Particulary seeing as she's not listed as a member anymore?

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umberellascankill · 23/10/2008 21:39

peenut you thick numpty.

hope you've crawled off never to return.

have reported too.

peenutt · 23/10/2008 21:42

so maybe you should not be so quick to judge, why not just give her a ring?

LynetteScavo · 23/10/2008 21:42

"she probably joined by mistake tis not hard i have done it meself once or twice you know what it's like some twat sends you an invite and you just click on it."

Er..no, you'd have to be a bit dense, or illiterate to do that.

mamakim · 23/10/2008 21:43

Makes me laugh that the group is described as not racist!

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peenutt · 23/10/2008 21:44

piss off LS i get so much crap on FB i don't really pay that much attention to most of it.

wessexgirl · 23/10/2008 21:44

Oh, yes, maybe she thought 'packies' meant people who do packing, and she hated them so much she thought she'd join a group.

Righty ho.

tigger32 · 23/10/2008 21:45

I have reported it too

Boco · 23/10/2008 21:46

Or pack donkeys? Maybe she thought using a donkey to carry heavy things is wrong and so she joined, and then read Adam's spurt of bile and un-joined? [hopeful]

peenutt · 23/10/2008 21:46

well it makes sense if she was a member and now shes not unless the OP is lying and shes still in the group.

nooOOOoonki · 23/10/2008 21:47

havent you fucked off yet peenut

sheesshh

peenutt · 23/10/2008 21:48

nop its a public forum and i'm allowed my opinion!!!! so you can fuck off

peenutt · 23/10/2008 21:49

by the way i only joined so i could post on the wall of the group!!

mamakim · 23/10/2008 21:50

Can someone report this thread for me and get it deleted. Peenuts has joined the group and i think he/she is getting out of hand. I'm off to bed. Feel ill.

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bubblerock · 23/10/2008 21:51

Way to go Peenutt - linking Mumsnet to a vile group like that through your message on their wall!

SmallShips · 23/10/2008 21:52

peenutts is a twat, ignore it.

What are you going to do about your step sister?

peenutt · 23/10/2008 21:52

getting out of hand are u avin a larff?

umberellascankill · 23/10/2008 21:53

you unpleasant little softcock pn. take your antagonistic crap elsewhere.

peenutt · 23/10/2008 21:55

i deleted it.

smallships your a fine one to talk luv

wingandprayer · 23/10/2008 22:05

have reported thread.