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To think I should be able to have a council house?

383 replies

frustratedmumof3 · 22/10/2008 20:18

Ho hum - must stop my addiction to MN as will not have time from next week so my cunning plan is to piss off as many people as possible so I will be frightened to come on here .

So, my local council are building lots of lovely new council or housing association (don't care what they are) homes in my area with brand spanking new kitchens, bathrooms, lovely new carpets etc, etc and I am thinking why should the so-called vulnerable members of society (who are most probably going to wreck the places) be higher on the housing list than us.

We rent privately (since we sold our house 2 years ago as could not afford the mortgage) and I don't see that we will ever be able to afford another house. We pay well over a grand for a 3 bed (3DCs) and have the insecurity of potentially having to move every 6 months at the owners whim which is the worst thing (have already moved 3 times since started renting).

It really makes me mad that quite a few of DCs friends have council houses where they pay only 350 per month and probably earn similar wages to us (the ones that work that is). What makes them deserve one more than us? I know damn well that we will not get one of the new homes as there are about 5000 people in the queue before us and they will probably go to single parents, immigrants and and generally useless members of society who do not work and have no intention of doing so. We pay our taxes and would appreciate any help we were given (as we need it now) but will get sweet FA. Makes me want to scream!! This thread may be unusual as I am not dissing council house tenants as I desperately want to be one (in a new build anyway).

OP posts:
MinkyBorage · 24/10/2008 17:01

lolololol

beaniescreamyb · 24/10/2008 17:05

I read this far "why should the so-called vulnerable members of society (who are most probably going to wreck the places) " and tehn thought .... NAhhh - can't be bothered with this kind of arsery. Has it kicked off yet?

ilovemydog · 24/10/2008 17:12

I hate these threads about Council Houses.

Blame the Thatcher government for selling them off and not replacing low cost/affordable housing thus creating a false scarcity.

pingping · 24/10/2008 17:17

OP is a twit and most likely hasn't even tried to get a council house the Arse just thought she would start a shit thread to piss people off

Did you know OP that even though you private rent you may be still entitled to Housing benefit

FAQ · 24/10/2008 18:35

lol pingping - I don't think she'd qualify for HB on £60k a year ........

MuAHAHAHAHAHmi · 24/10/2008 19:12

No, YANBU to think you should be able to have a council house.

YABU not to get off your arse and apply for one

YABU to think that you are better than everyone else who does have one and and therefore more entitled.

Oh and YABU to be a complete C U Next Tuesday about it while you're at it too.

Good riddance Bye bye

TinkerBellesMum · 24/10/2008 21:00

annie, I did say my post was to everyone with the ignorant comments that have come up on this thread, yours was the first I came to and I'm sorry if I misread it but it wasn't the only post I was replying to but the same stupid comments are coming up over and again so I didn't see the point in saying it all over again.

ajs86 · 24/10/2008 21:15

Single parents - sorry no sympathy (except for the kids and without doubt those widowed), it could be suggested that they should have got to know their partner before having kids to make sure (a) they both wanted them (b) they were not feckless, drug addicts or alcoholics and (c) they wanted to spend their life with them.

you have no fucking right to say this, me and my ex were together for 7 years and we decided we wanted a child, the reason HE walked out on me is because we had a girl, yes thats right the baby "wasnt the right sex"
is that really my fault???

TinkerBellesMum · 24/10/2008 22:16

How many couples split up after 25 + years together? Quite a few actually! It's completely unfair to say that a couple shouldn't have kids if they don't plan on being together forever and, to be honest, absolutely none of anyone else's business!

ilovemydog · 24/10/2008 22:19

Tinksmum - do not get stressed. It's not worth it for you and babytink...

Stay on nappy, gardening threads until babytink arrives at week 40!

Philistina · 24/10/2008 22:29

LOL Looks like you probably succeeded in scaring yourself off then, frustratedmumof3

TinkerBellesMum · 24/10/2008 22:30

I'm not stressed, gardening would do that to me though! Just glad I don't have one and the bit of grass I do have is cut by the HA.

NorthernLurker · 25/10/2008 09:20

Oh - how strange - obviously parenting all those children is preventing her from getting back to the pc to clarify exactly how many she has!

bambi06 · 25/10/2008 09:46

I agree that some people really dont deserve council properties as they are playing the game by being housed but working on the side and earning more money than me ..designer wear/new car every 6 months ...how can they afford that if theyre not working`..thats what annoys me ..of course there are genuine people out there who need housing but they should do more checks on people who are on benefits and have their housin g paid for!!!

TinkerBellesMum · 25/10/2008 13:36

bambi06, shall we all say this again together, maybe slower this time?

ANYONE

CAN

GET

A

COUNCIL

HOUSE

OR

HA

WHATEVER

THEIR

CIRCUMSTA NCES

TinkerBellesMum · 25/10/2008 13:39

There is a huge difference between social housing and housing benefit. Not all social housing is paid for by housing benefit, for example (again, sorry) there is an estate under my HA that only lets to key workers (do I need to explain the concept of key workers?) earning £15,000+ a year. It's not our first key worker estate either.

ShinyPinkPumpkin · 25/10/2008 13:42

I would imagine that most vulnerable, disabled, or genarally disadvantaged people would swap their council property in a heartbeat if their lives could be more advantaged and their diability gone.

frustratedmumof3 · 25/10/2008 18:57

NL - (if you are still lurking) yes have been v.busy working and parenting (went out last night, took the kids on a 6 mile cycle ride today and the cinema AND the library and am now waiting for my homemade vegetable soup to cool down before we eat) - I do have a life, do you?.

I have exactly 3 children, I USED to be a SAHM (could not work to cc cost as detailed, this also explains how we could not afford a house, could not get tax credits and do not get any now) but went back to full time work last year and my kids are now all at school (Twins in primary and DD just started sec school). Does that explain it for you - .

It was made clear in my post that we are on the council house list (as I mentioned the 5000 others in the queue). Does piss me off slightly when people want to voice an opinion but do not read the post properly.

OP posts:
StewieGriffinsMom · 25/10/2008 19:11

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ToThrottleABlackBird · 25/10/2008 21:58

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Ronaldinhio · 25/10/2008 22:08

Did you once write for Bernard Manning?

ToThrottleABlackBird · 25/10/2008 22:11

Me?

Ronaldinhio · 25/10/2008 22:13

Why yes....

ToThrottleABlackBird · 25/10/2008 22:18

Twas the only suitable thing I could think of that described the op

Ronaldinhio · 25/10/2008 22:19

like it

sidles up admiringly