To think my mother should ask me before changing DD's birthday present

[dilemma456]

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YANBU but I assume your mum was just trying to help. Is it worth doing/saying anything or should you just let it slide?

You had already decided it wasnt suitable. Sounds like your mum was trying to be helpful.

I would be more pissed off she went in my wardrobe while I was out

I would want to choose. It would bug me.

I think it depends on your relationship with your Mum. Is is the kind of thing she would usually do?

Agree with jb - I would be fuming if my mum went in my wardrobe while I wasn't there.