It's our anniversary this weekend. A friend has just rung about something unrelated and accidentally let the cat out of the bag that dh had asked them to have ds for a sleepover at the weekend. Well, um, ds has never slept anywhere else before, plus he's a tricky sleeper and v stuck to his routine, and although he's not clingy he's very attached to me at bedtime and gets really upset if I'm not there. (I went to aerobics the other night and although dh often does bedtime ds was still really upset that I'd gone out and was up, tired and tearstained when I got back...and this was at home with daddy.)
So, I'm v excited that dh is planning something lovely, and am a very lucky girl I know, I know, but I would have liked ds's first sleepover to be um....ok I'll say it... more under my control. God that sounds precious doesn't it.
Am I being really stupid? I'm a bit cross that I wasn't consulted as I probably would have said ds isn't ready as he can't get to sleep by himself. Without me. Oh God it's all about me isn't it.
Someone tell me whether I'm being stupid or whether I'm right to worry that I'll get a phonecall at 3am and hear ds in tears in the background I don't think I'll be able to relax and enjoy the evening