To be fed up of giving my time up to help people when they don't even bloody bother to say thankyou grrrr

[Disheartenedwaaaaa]

Am having a grump!

Ahhhh that feels better

can i join you.

[grump]

I'm so blooming annoyed i've changed my name so you don't all think i'm a moany old cow

Misdee grump away!

oh dear, spill........

tell us whats wrong.....

If you ask someone to help you sort out your mess of a house would you not think to at least thank them for taking the time and trouble to help you or would you simply say 'if you're up to it i could do with going through the loft next time'

Maybe it's just me, but two simple words go a long way She is a friend but even so i am annoyed. This isn't the first time i've put myself out either.
Am possibly just feeling annoyed at myself for feeling annoyed, but even so grrrr

I want to thank you all.

Oh not me

Yes bad friend. tut tut. is annoying not to be appreciated.

YANBU - ungrateful woman. Still, it will be a no next she she asks won't it.

I have no problem helping anyone but yes this has annoyed me! I don't help to receive but a simple thank you in my opinion goes a very long way.

Oh FAQ this is in no way related to anyone on here, its just really rattled my cage today

maybe she will text later? Or bring you a bar of choccy tommorow?

I know it's not (you haven't been round and helped me sort my house out today ) - but I honestly can't remember if I thanked them properly (in my defense I wasn't in a good way, very bad depression).

YANBU. would annoy me big time too

Maybe, as UnfortunatelyMe says, she's planning on getting you a wee thankyou gift, or phoning later.

Could the 'loft next time' been meant jokingly?

No the loft was NOT meant as a joke, and if she does call to say thanks then i will happily eat my words. It sounds terrible, but i almost resent helping her at the moment

I think you have every right to be resentful.

You've given up your time and energy tohelp her and she can't even manage to say 2 words.

tbh, even if she is planning a gift/ phonecall don't see why she couldn't say 'thank' and still go ahead with a gesture later.

I'm starting to wonder if her body will implode if she says those words

she called

that's good

Except i now feel a complete wanker for getting annoyed

is she a mnetter?

Oh god we have discussed Mumsnet before
That hadn't even crossed my mind

Oh god, quick post lovely things about her!

I think you have a right to be upset. I hate people like that, so rude. But I always bring wine and flowers to meals, and send thank you cards for the things my friends do
Maybe she'll be in touch later.

disheartened - if you came and helped me sort my house out I would grovel around your ankles and worship at the altar of your saintliness. Ditch your friend be my friend, PLLEEEEEEEEEEASE.