DHs dad ALWAYS rings DH and asks him if he can help him with this, that and the other.
In the last 2 months DH must have gone round there on 5 seperate occasions, for full days, and helped him with things such as laying pathways, clearing out rooms etc...
Now we are decorating the bumps room and DH has never hung wallpaper alone before, yet he plans on doing the full room.
He asked his dad to drop the pasting table off and I said he should ask his dad to help.
But DH wont.
Im sure FIL would help if DH asked but he just says 'I'll do it myself!'
But why??
He helps FIL out all the time so I think he has the right to ask for some help back when he is doing a big job!
I think he doesn't want to ask as FIL has a small baby and DH doesn't want to mither him, but we have 2 toddlers and Im 27 weeks PG, so its not like FIL hesitates asking for help because of our family. Hes a lovely bloke and am sure he would help. I just don't get why DH helps everyone but struggles with things himself!!