The reason i have done this is because he never gives me money and I cant risk being left without milk and nappies if im relying on him to supply them. Plus on the CSA calculator its says im entitled to £40 off of him a week and I feel that he should pay that much, not pay for the nappies and pocket the remainder of the money.
He never gives me the money im supposed to get anyway so why is it going to suddenly change if hes buying nappies instead. I think he thinks I use his money for other things.... yeah right. I never go out. I get my hair cut once in a blue moon.... my clothes.... well lets not even go there. Basicly I want the full amount of money that Im entitled to. I spend it on the kids anyway buying them clothes.
He is so unreliable and expect he would buy the cheepest version of everything even though ds cant use certain wet wipes due to his skin and I dont trust him to get the to me.
He says im out of order for doing this but he has hardly provided for either of the kids since they were born and I have learnt to cope using my money and if he gives me any then thats a bonus and means the dcs can have some new clothes or is put away for bigger purchases like cots or shoes.